Sunday, June 19, 2011

Today is the day to celebrate Daddy's !!! - OMG what did she just say?



WHO'S YOUR DADDY?

Im not going to go "Hallmark" on you ~ but I do want to take a minute and say to all the great men who embrace the many roles of...: FATHER - DADDY - ROLEMODEL - MENTOR - PROTECTOR, thank you.

A father is the first man a little girl has the opportunity to fall in love with. It is this man she will base all her male relationships from, its he who teaches her self-esteem, and he defines what unconditional love will feel like to his little girl.

In the world of BDSM I see a different kind of "daddy" and it would seem many many women have turned to these daddys to offset the lack of father figures in their life growing up. I here guys complaining where are the good girls and woman worth falling in love with and having a meaningful LTR with? You want a female who is self confident, well adjusted, respectful, and sexually healthy [well I don't know about the last one I just listed off] then take a look at her relationship with her father. Its an indicator, without a doubt.

I have been blessed, and while I typically don't mix the personal life with my professional world I want to break this rule for just a second and say thank you to the men in my life that have given me great examples of fatherly love... and I appreciate the man with whom I created a sweet girl with. She is the great human being that she is because her DADDY loves her and he is very important in her life. I couldnt have raised her without him so for his commitment to me and really to the little girl he brought into this world, I am so grateful you took your role of fatherhood serious. Co-parenting in this day and age when you are not a couple is tough and he and I have done a good job of raising a beautiful person separately together. You may never find this blog entry but if you do stumble across it someday you will know these words are from my heart.

So I toast all the DADDYS in the world who have committed to their role. Children need mamma's and daddy's... TRUE STORY. yeah yeah I am a dominant female and I know it might conflict with the "FEMDOM" image but I do have a handful of men I respect beyond words and I am glad they are in my life and and and ....


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