A whoo whoo topic... on a full moon feeling -

Happy Halloween and what a fucking full moon feeling kinky fucks ... I feel a pent up electricity bouncing in the fall evening air tonight.

ASTROLOGY 💥 I HAVE READ THIS DUDES COLUMN FOREVER (WELL KNOWN HOROSCOPE COLUMN WRITER)

                      👉 HIS IG LINK

His thoughts about the Geminis... 

GEMINI: In the version of astrology I find most interesting, reincarnation is a foundational hypothesis. In each lifetime, a soul chooses a particular astrological sign because the qualities of that sign are what the 

You're here to get the hang of what it’s like to be smart and versatile and adaptable and changeable. Your assignment is to keep yourself endlessly entertained and build a strong center of gravity as you weave your life together with a variety of lively activities and ideas and friends.

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Yeah that sounds about right!

Medical Fetish Anyone? Bio Gel surgical gloves!

I Love Love Love these kind of gloves. I was poking around in one of my kinky storage containers and look what I found two seven and a half pair of biogel surgical sterile gloves in shade blue fucking love these things oh my God I'm going to just I don't know....  but I do love them! 

HEY YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE - YOU NEED TO CUM BACK! WHY? BECAUSE MY YAYA MISSES YOU!  YEAH ☹️🫠😭

I found proof that humans haven't harnessed the very basic of human nature ... with out pheromones you cannot be..

Attraction reduced to the very subjective yet required element of pheromones will become the only thing left ... mortals need lust desire validation to stir a soul pheromones is that chasm that drives 2 humans to fuck passionately I like the smell of a man who hold his power with grace grounded... but give him a touch of of needy I will smell it and make it my perfume. Click on the story link below👇

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What is Big Dick Energy ?

The stigma of being A Dominant Female ...

Men say I want a Dominant Female ...

Men think they want a girl that is confident and able to hold her own in thr bedroom ...

Men fantasize about being with a girl who can tie him up, tease him, fuck his ass ...

But when it comes down to actually meeting a Dominant female, dating a Dominatrix, being in a relationship with Domme.... 

NOT SO MUCH!

Men don't understand the fantasy vs the reality.  

Truthfully.... Men are scared of a woman with BIG DICK ENERGY in the real world. For all you men saying where do I find a real Dominant female? We are out here but you wouldn't know what the fuck to do if you actually met a REAL Dominant female. I know this because I am and I can't get a date if my life depended on it. Yup, kinda pathetic ... sad... but ultimately it's the truth. 

Mistress Please...

The Decor of thr Dark Side....

Yes its a real place!

DOMINATRIX OR ?? WE ALL DONT RUN ON THE SAME bigDICK ENERGY

Understanding the Spectrum of Female Dominance in BDSM can't be nutshelled In a few sentences. I tried to keep the info specific to the role and title.
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I wanted to dive into the diverse world of female dominance within the BDSM community and shed light on the various roles women can take on. Each role comes with its own unique set of benefits and potential drawbacks, and it's important to explore these differences to better understand and respect the dynamics involved.

1. **Lifestyle Dominant**:
   - *Benefits*: Lifestyle Dominants often engage in BDSM as integral parts of their personal and intimate relationships, fostering trust and creating emotionally fulfilling relationships beyond the traditional vanilla (non kinky) based partnerships we see in society  deemed as normal. They have the opportunity for deeper emotional connections with their submissives. You can engage activities and test limits with a certain level of trust as much as your relationship and time will allow for. Lifestyle kink and play parties are easier to get into if you are a couple. Your relationship will allow for more sexual engagement both vanilla and fetishized based on what you and your partner agree on. Usually you are not paying to play every time you want to engage in fetish activities with your partner.
   - *Negatives*: The emotional investment can be intense, leading to potential emotional strain. Balancing lifestyle with other responsibilities can be challenging. Normal day to day life has to be balanced with kinky activities. If your partner isn't coming from the BDSM community, getting your partner onboard and thru learning/accepting/engaging stages of a kink or fetish play can be a difficult path to achieve successfully. A partner who isn't kink inclined may/may not warm to your fetish whims, and it can cause a breakdown of your relationship over time. Some women aren't cut out for power exchange dynamics. So bitch slapping her partner, tying him up, calling him derogatory names, fucking his ass like you see in a pegging video online, then respecting you in the morning...  while making breakfast for the kids and adding all the normal duties a wife or girlfriend demands may not be a easy thing  to accept and or thrive at. Sorry, it doesn't work like in the fetish videos you see online.

2. **Professional Dominatrix**:
   - *Benefits*: Professional Dominatrices provide a safe, controlled environment for BDSM experiences. They'll usually possess expertise in a broad range of various kinks and can help clients explore their desires without the need of having a romantic primary lifestyle relationship with the Dominatrix.  Professional  Dominatrixes typically work out of commercial dungeons if they are just getting started and eventually will settle into an independent status once they have learned all the tricks of the trade and collected enough fetish props and implements, toys, costumes, and clients to maintain her own private studio or set up in a domestic setting.  All come with their own fetish skills, levels of experience, and usually market to fetishes they specialize in. ProDommes are facilitators, meaning if you wish to explore specific fetish, kinks, roleplay, engage in fantasy scenerios, IRL or Online, for a fee, you can do this with a professional Dominatrix. Usually a good reputable Domme has a VERY visible presence online and is known within the fetish community. You can find them in multiple online fetish communities. provide valuable means to explore with discretion, honoring your limits with consent. They will customize your session to the experience level you are at, without infringing on your primary life
   - *Negatives*: Maintaining professional boundaries is crucial, which can limit the depth of personal connections. Usually professional Dommes will not engage in any traditional sexual activities. She isnt going to suck your cock or allow PIV sex. There may be societal stigmatization and many believe if you have to pay a Domme she isnt a real Domme. FALSE! Commercial and Independent Dominatrixes are not one in the same. Do you research before booking and sending money to a ProDomme. This too has become a concerning area for scamming opportunities due to the fact a ProDomme will typically ask for a deposit when you book a session. This is common with proDommes. But you must really research a Domme to find a creditable one before you book and give over a deposit. I'm a pro Domme and I can assure you there are honest, trustworthy providers who are going to give you amazing sessions, not take your money and disappear.

3. **FinDomme**:
   - *Benefits*: Financial Dominatrixes can gain financial independence and empowerment while fulfilling submissive fantasies. The power dynamic can be thrilling. Online FinDommes are plentiful and a male will not have any problem finding women who identify and promote themselves as FinDommes online primarily and it spills over into the proffessional  Dominatrix world as well as a lifestyle Domme. Presently there are a plethora of females touting being FinDommes in online fetish communities and platforms specifically geared to this fetish.
   - *Negatives*: There's a risk of exploitation, and ethical concerns around financial control should always be considered.This specific kink has gained a fair amount of negative impact due to the ease of online and IRL scaming opportunities. I'm not discrediting the fetish or the validity of anyone being a legit FinDomme, but I do think it should be said before you engage in the activities of financial domination with someone do your own research  before giving someone personal info, bank/computer passwords, send money etc...

4. **FemDom**:
   - *Benefits*: FemDoms celebrate female empowerment and assertiveness. They can experience personal growth in self-confidence and independence. Female Led Relationships I think fall best under this title/role dynamic. There is a wonderful Domme "Ferns" who has an excellent blog and podcast that helps both women and men understand the differences and pitfalls trying to navigate a lifestyle FemDom situation vs the fetish fantasy. I've attached the link https://www.domme-chronicles.com/2019/06/dating-ferns-an-insiders-perspective. FemDom many identify with from watching fetish porn prior to looking for FemDom in the real word setting.  A fetish content FemDom isn't the same as a IRL lifestyle FemDom generally speaking but either can be both. I know... very confusing. Sorry
   - *Negatives*: Some may misunderstand or misrepresent the concept, leading to a broad ranged spectrum of misconceptions about female Dominance largely due to easy access and the amount of FemDom fetish porn content found on the Internet today. Many males have connect the dot experiences happen when they find a video online that resonates with his personal feelings, or mimics a situation similar to one that happened to him IRL, and they take the fetishized porn clips as validation to his own perceptions of a FemDom and run with it when they seek an iRL tangible experience. 

5. **Dominant Switch**:
   - *Benefits*: Switches enjoy versatility, experiencing both sides of the dominant-submissive spectrum. They have a broader understanding of BDSM dynamics. A woman who understands the nuances of submission from a experience based POV can be helpful when her partner has little to none experience themselves.   
   - *Negatives*: It can be challenging to find compatible partners, as not everyone is comfortable with switches. Personal identity within BDSM can be fluid and alot people have trouble identifying with this as acceptable duality in a kink based relationship. Most people within the BDSM community are wired to pick a side Dominant or submissive. In my personal experience this title/role  is a hard one to find compatibility and healthy balance in when navigating the power exchange dynamic between their respective partners. The mental gymnastics required to be successful in this D/s/S relationship is alot to navigate. I personally fall into this catagory and it's a shitshow 90% of the time trying to get all of my wants, and desires, and even some basic needs met when my partner also identifies as a D/s or  s/D. 

6. **Mommy Domme**:
   - *Benefits*: Mommy Dommes offer nurturing, caring domination. This role can fulfill both their and their partner's desires for emotional intimacy and protection. Many times a younger male will seek an older woman in this dynamic like in the classic movie Mrs Robinson. Young men who haven't found IRL success with a female counterpart romantically will turn to this dynamic in hopes of gaining sexual experience they haven't been able to explore thru their adolescent/ puberty years. Also men with fetishes that include age regression, ABDL fetishes, and domestic discipline can gravitate to a Mommy Domme.
   - *Negatives*: Misunderstandings about this role may lead to misconceptions. Maintaining the balance between nurturing and dominance can be complex. The males that seek this dynamic IRL can stuff alot of fetishized activities and unrealistic expectations onto a female who identifies as a Mommy Domme due to the fetish porn content that's found under the catagory "Mommy Domme" on Fetish based video content sites.

The key to a healthy BDSM relationship, regardless of the role, is communication, consent, and mutual respect. Each role has its place in the BDSM tapestry, and it's essential to honor the choices and preferences of all participants.