A professional fetish provider, and a lifestyle dominant who embraces the female led relationship concept. I encourage men, women, couples to follow my blog for insightful opinions, stories about a day in the life of a dominant girl, and ideas on how to bring the element of kink to real relationships. Hey now... dont we all just want to live "happily ever after"?!
Tuesday, November 22, 2022
A Review I found on the Web
Friday, February 15, 2019
Surviving the 14th...
I did! Did you? Why is there so much energy misused on this day? If you love someone show it... dont bitch about having to show someone they are loved. You dont have to $pend alot of money to say I LOVE YOU! You just have to be creative. It gets the most mileage if its done from the heart❣
Friday, February 1, 2019
How do we reach you Mistress Noir? If you have my number... JUST CALL ME or follow the instructions in this post
Note: If you are on a mobile device you will need to scroll down to the bottom of this page and click on "View Web Version" to see the contact box.
Your name
Your contact info email and a valid phone number
Best time to contact you on your phone number (my goal isn't to bother you when its not convenient)
If you are someone I've seen in the past please let me know and connect the dots for me.
and
I'm on niteflirt as MSNOIR too.
The Mistress Noir
Wednesday, January 2, 2019
Tuesday, November 20, 2018
Serious Fucking Business
There is a new law that was passed last week and it's going to run all sorts of trouble for those of us who advertise our services. Originally, this law was "intended" to make it a felony charge for sites that are being missued by human trafficking, thru promotion of their girls in personals, dating sites, communities like backpage, Craigslist, TRE...etc! I typically have resisted the temptation to live in fear of law enforcement... but after my attorney called me and explained what this law had the potential for... I am going to do as he suggests... and focus my energies on some other interests of mine.
So while I will continue to take clients who have seen me before, my process for taking new clients will be tough.
🤤All new clients will be subjected to a new verification process. This means that in order to see me you will be asked to provide proof of identity😲prior to booking with me.
I will be removing certain kinks and fetish activities from those I currently offer to keep me from being targeted for things n stuff that this new law could potentially be considered no-no's! 🚫
If you are someone new to domination, there is no sexual activity provided in a session with me. Do not ask for anything of sexual nature, imply that you are seeking sex of any kind, & you must be able to prove you are over 21 years old in my verification process before I will session with a new client. I understand this is going put off some of you. I get you want for your own reasons discretion and may worry about disclosing your personal info to me. My answer to this is... you can do your research on me, you can pretty easily find ways to verify I am a known and well respected dominatrix within our local kink community for over a decade now. Part of this job is being discreet with all my clients, and being sensitive to their need for being anonymous to preserve their own personal reasons for enlisting time with a professional domme. If you have seen another professional domme and she is willing to vouch for you, that's great. I'll vett you with a positive reference from another provider, if you have no one you can use as a verification reference you will be asked to provide a business card and or proper id, verifying you are who you say you are. If you don't want to do this and I have not seen you in the past, I will not schedule a session with you.
My reputation precedes me and I understand my clients need to feel safe as well as trust me, I in turn need to feel the same about those who come to see me.
I apologize if this new policy hinders someone new from the experience of exploring their kinks and fetishes with me in the future but unfortunately this is non negotiable. I hope you understand this is not being put in effect to extort or out any person who wishes to explore kink with a professional domme, but merely the process of creating a level transparency with clients who have not been vetted with me or another provider. My safety is equally as important as is yours.
Respectfully,
Mistress Noir
Wednesday, February 14, 2018
Saturday, January 13, 2018
Watch for Something NEW
I'm collaborating as I type this with an old friend of mine to create a new YouTube channel.... stay tuned! It will be visible soon... as I am creating the content this month.
It's a fun little venture that many may benefit from.... we shall see!
Stay tuned!
Cheers,
Mistress Noir
Wednesday, January 3, 2018
Ohhh snap...
Wtf?
Gif created from a medical fetish scene I did with my "craving" a year or so ago... fun times with extreme cbt play.
Cheers
Mistress Noir
Monday, December 4, 2017
Scenting fetishes....
Those of you who have scenting fetishes know the power one has to imprint themselves on you for life. Well this client of mine is hooked on my smell...
He sent me an email about something that happened to him and I think it's funny so I'm sharing it with you!
I can't make this stuff up folks!
Enjoy!!!
Mistress Noir
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Hi Mistress Noir,
The strangest thing happened today. Let me give you a little background first
I lost my job 2 weeks ago and decided to drive for Uber to make some money. When you figure out who this is, you will probably remember how much I enjoy the scent of that ever so special place, between your thighs. I have mentioned that if someone could make a perfume with that special scent they would make a fortune.
Anyway, I picked up a couple going to a party. When the woman got in the car, my mind raced to that special place between your thighs. The perfume he was wearing was more erotic than any I've ever smelled and I immediately thought, finally, someone has developed a perfume with the mild scent of pussy.....almost. She was wearing a lot of the perfume and it normally would have overwhelmed me. But I just couldn't get enough! Every time I inhaled my mind took me to your precious labia and clit as I tried to please you while collecting your scent over my face. My mind was between your legs! They had to stop for a bottle of wine to take to the party and left me in the car with my excitement. I closed my eyes breathing as deeply as I could, trying to inhale as much of that scent as I could. Over the ten minutes or so they were out of the car the smell faded somewhat but when they returned and the scent became stronger again I decided that I had to ask the name of the perfume. The husband seemed to be upset that I asked. I assume he had the same reaction to the perfume I had and became at least a little jealous that I noticed. He had to know what I noticed, the smell was SO erotic!
Anyway, she told me she wasn't sure of the name. My best guess is that she knows the effect it has on men and wants to keep it to herself. I was ready to worship her on the spot! She told me she got it at Nordstrom's and that it is a combination of scents and you are supposed to put them on in layers. I wonder if maybe, she added a little of her personal scent to the perfume. She could easily reach between her legs, dab a little pussy juice on a finger and mix it in with whatever she bought.
Now, I've been excited for several hours, am all drippy and hope the scent of her perfume is still lingering in my car in the morning.
I also hope I find a job soon and am able to return to that glorious treasure chest of ever so erotic scent between your legs.
I hope you don't mind me sharing this with you. I had to share it with someone and thought you would understand because you know how I so enjoy your scent!
Submissively,
T
Saturday, November 11, 2017
Sunday, October 22, 2017
She put his foot in her mouth...
We all have heard the saying "I put my foot in my mouth..."
Well... lol - this lil fuck slut of Master Estatic, she decided to put her Master's foot in her mouth the other night when they were over here hanging out watching movies.
It's a bit harder to do than one would think. Giggling...
... foot fetish at its finest!
When someone asks me if I'm the real thing??? Do I live the lifestyle? Lol... I think so...???
Yes pussycat I'm the real thing. I don't pretend only when I'm in a session. I have vanilla friends, kinky friends, and yes, I wake up with morning breath just like the rest of the mere mortals I share this planet with. True story!
Enjoy the day,
Mistress Noir
Tuesday, September 26, 2017
Makes watching tv a bit harder but... lol...
Who needs to watch tv when you have a bound up boy to play with....???
True story!!!
Cheers
Mistress Noir
Saturday, September 23, 2017
CFNM Party at Miss Sadie Hawkins
Omg.
What a fun party we had the other night. I have a good friend who hosts Clothed Female Naked Male parties a couple times a year. This last party was great. 12 males...10 females... and a whole lotta fun.
I was in charge of games... so in true spirit of my love for party games... we played "pound the spud" which was fucking fantastic fun for us girls to watch and here is a pic of them "pushing the fluff"!
These parties are great fun. In fact they are so much fun I'm considering co hosting a foot fetish party with her in the near future! Yup stay tuned... enjoy the weekend!
Cheers...
Mistress Noir
Monday, September 18, 2017
Will it help if I...
STRAP ON A PENIS SO YOU UNDERSTAND THE WORDS COMING OUT OF MY MOUTH boy... ?
Lol.... if it were that easy!
Getting a man to understand what you are trying to communicate sometimes requires a different method of presenting it to him! When all else fails try my method above!
See? A little FemDom style can do a conversation good!
Enjoy the day
Mistress Noir
I said no touching...
Funny contraption... this is a a ball and cock restraining device that also gets attached to your wrists so that there is no chance of you stroking you're excited state of affairs between your legs!
When I say don't touch your cock I mean don't touch your cock and if you have a problem with that I have just the thing that can help you!
...evil giggles
Mistress Noir
Tuesday, August 29, 2017
Monday, July 31, 2017
FOOT FETISH ... The Mistress Noir
Wednesday, June 21, 2017
Summertime and Fetish
Cheers,
Mistress Noir
Pick the Caption...
1. Up my Ass
2. Asskisser
3. Brown Noser
4. Mistress has a pet
5. Kiss my Ass
6. Worship my Ass
7. Eat my Ass
8. Smell my Was
9. I'm going to Queen your face
10. Follow my Ass
Now vote by putting number you like in the comment section... the winner will get an ASS prize.... so vote the caption, contest ends on July 15. I'll post winner on the 17th. Have a valid email or you can't win. Cheers,
Mistress Noir
Wednesday, April 5, 2017
Sissy school for sluts that need training
Im embarking on a new project....
Im creating a training course to be available hopefully both online and in person - training sissys how to be proper slutty mistress play things!
Stay tuned.
If you'd like to be in on the creation of this course there may be some opportunities to engage and help. We'll see....
Cheers,
Mistress Noir






