When 2 people are different you can still explore together and it be magical

Watch This 👍 In the world of BDSM there is the misconception that both parties MUST share the same kinks. 🤔 No that's not the case. I think its more cerebral than that. "Power Exchange" is a aspect of my kinky persona that seems to be a given. Those that know me professionally totally get or feel I'm in control of the time we spend together. I orchestrate what is explored with those who seek me to fascilitate kinky things n stuff. I'm not roleplaying a Dominatrix, I am a dominant. But as a fetish fascilitator, when someone seeks me out to explore a fetish, experience a kinky scenario, roleplay a specific fantasy it my job to create a experience that is much like what is happening in this video I have linked in this post. A good professional dominatrix can take two world and blend together a experience that leaves you feeling like you just experienced something magical. Not everyone who is dominant can pull off Power Exchange successfully, though one may think it is a given. Power Exchange is one of those elements in BDSM that goes without saying... EXPECTED to be delivered by the Dominant. Its magical between two people when explored with trust. This video while not bdsm related still shows that 2 people from different worlds can come together and explore something together beautifully. There is trust, each bringing their strengths to the moment and allowing what transpires from coming together be magic. Long story short sometimes my clients and I are from 2 very different worlds, but when you step into my kinky world of bdsm it's my goal to create experiences the feel kinda like how the two who dance in this video... MAGICAL. (Fetish and Kinky... magical). Happy Sunday/Funday! Mistress Noir

Mistress Noir says WHAT'S NEW PUSSYCAT?

Exciting stuff is brewing in my little chuck of cyberspace. 

In my efforts to be more accessible to those that seek my attn, I have decided to focus this year on improving my online presence. Giving you my devoted minions more opportunities to serve me, oogle me, communicate with me, and submit to me.

Wow!


Im getting a headache just thinking about all that. As most of you know by now I super duper HATE most of my technology devices. Learning all the stuff it requires to be a web persona of any interest is quite complicated. Well to me it is. I'm sure for the tech savvy ones out there this "whhhoaaa is me" rant is amusing. 

Anyways, one of new things that you will see is JD Stockroom featured here on my blog and website. 

I will be reviewing products and giving you my two cents worth of an opinion on various items and when I begin my tease and denial weekly cam sessions, depending on the tease session for the week, you will need to gather, borrow or buy the items on my "tease ingredient list" prior to joining in on the weekly tease session. Items that can be purchased thru my affiliate program will have links attached to them so you can purchase easily ... because we know you want to participate in the tease session with your Mistress. 

Who owns your orgasms my horny boys? That is correct, Mistress Noir does. 

When you wish to buy toys via online please consider buying them thru the links provided on the my website and here on my blog, as it gives your Mistress credit and points so she can buy more toys and fun devices that in turn benefit you. They say its all about the  Mistress? Right... I think if you haven't figured this out, its all about you my dear minions.  

REALLY NOW ... ITS ALL ABOUT YOU!!!

Mistress Noir's slave shared his thoughts on whats its like to be my domestic slave...

 Warm fuzzies from a subby posted online ...

Mistress is stunningly beautiful, strict, demanding and worth every moment i am allowed to spend with her. Mistress is, in every sense, the real deal. Her wide array of toys (animate and inanimate) makes every experience fulfilling. Anyone allowed to be in Her stable of slaves and minions will be deeply honored to experience Her dominant ways. i love being Her sub. You would, too.

Then a few months later he says some more about his time with me ...

Mistress allowed me to be her house slave. After disrobing and receiving a butt plug and nipple clamps, I cleaned toilets, showers, bath tubs, floors, sinks, and mirrors. I cleaned her car and garage. I was then placed in a box and peered through a slit as Mistress pleased herself. The last thing i cleaned was her fingers. If you are a sub, you must contact Mistress, she is the best.

 Smooches, 

          Mistress Noir

Mistress Noir says BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR.... no really!!!

What can your Mistress say except, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR BOYS & MEN!!! 

The video serves as a good reminder that not all our fantasies that play in our heads will play the same in somebody elses head. If you decide to pitch a fetish or fantasy to your partner its without a doubt a risky move with no way to determine its outcome, positive or negative. 

Women, when presented with kink and fetish, given no prior exposure, will typically not see your kink in the same way you have come to terms with it. If you wish for a woman to dominate you, its almost a given she isn't going to want to learn how to dominate you via you. We as humans have to have a reason to embrace new thoughts or consider things outside our comfort zone. 

My recommendation is if you wish to include your partner in your fetish, or wish they join in your kinky games you seek out some guidance, via a kink friendly counselor or someone who can give you ideas on how to pitch your desire so its given half a chance to the person you wish to "come out too". If she doesn't see the benefit of why she should let you wear panties while fucking her, she isn't going to hop on the panty bandwagon without some resistance. Conveying the value add of a kink or fetish incorporated into a real relationship can be a tricky thing to do, regardless of how open minded they are. 

I addvocate sharing and allowing partners the opportunity to embrace and incorporate kinks and fetishes with their partners. Just be cautious in how your unveil your kinks and realize the consequences of doing so sometimes wont be the outcome you pictured or hoped for. 

Happy kinky Saturday boys & girls,
Smooches, 
Mistress Noir

DIARY OF A CHASTITY EXPERIMENT ... Mistress Noir shares her experience...

 Chastity - Ruined Orgasms - Orgasm Denial

CB3000 or 8000 (lol) whatever ... Its a Cage for Your Cock

 21 days was the deal and he made it to 17 ... 

Here is a journal of our chastity experience.

http://chastityslaveofnoir.blogspot.com/

Yes, I was pissed how it ended but the experiment itself was a great learning experience and Im glad I did it as well as keeping a journal with the slave that agreed to do this experiment. 

As you can see, its an ungodly hour so its time to say Publish so I can go to bed. This technology stuff is kicking my brain with  all the nuances of making technology get up on the cloud. 

and you say, "Thank you Mistress Noir"... you are welcome subby's!!


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Social Media and Technology LOVE/HATE Relationship - The Mistress Noir

Just a quick note ... this internet cyberland social media stuff is another fucking full time job to manage...
Ugh!!!
That is, all I'm ranting about tonight!!!
Hope you all appreciate my New Years Resolution to get it together on the world wide web...

Kinky Kisses from your Mistress Noir

Mistress Noir - back on her original blog

 Im happy to be on my original blog again!!!

I feel as though my web guy did something wickedly magical given its with technology that I thought was all but lost. HE REVIVED MY ORIGINAL BLOG!!

Lets share a moment of ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh big gratitude since I thought I was starting from complete scratch on the world wide web AGAIN.  The blog that continued after I shut down and merged this one into my website, is unfortunately lost but it beats starting all the way from ZIP ZERO ZAPPED - NOTHING!!! 

YAY WEBGUY who saves my ass every time my technology tasks gets bigger than my brain can commute on its own. This last web disappearance totally all my own doing. Ugh!!! Sometimes I am not a one woman online superpower with super hero abilities in technical masterminding over the web. But I try. To the dismay of my web guy damn it I try.

Everyone seems to be blogging these days so its a miracle if anyone finds me, and by the lack of comments historically its like talking to yourself hoping for comments and interaction from those that follow me seems to be few and far between. Also, no fun. 

So if you have found me, and like a post or have a thought please share with me... it will encourage me to write and share more with you!!! Does this make sense? 

Smooches, 
Mistress Noir
WWW.THEMISTRESSNOIR.COM

Mistress Noir ::: FETISHES & KINKS ::: revised 4/25/11

This has been published on blog before so this is the **REVISED** NEWEST LIST OF FETISHES I ENJOY AND/OR OFFER IN A PRO-SESSION SETTING


Let's play it out.. kinky play and fetish fantasies don't have to be all dark and dungeon. I am in control, I am dominating you. I will switch, but its rare and its gotta have the right elements for a switch session.

Many are frightened all the stuff I do requires you accepting painful roleplay. Thats not so... Unless of course you are a PAINSLUT!! I always welcome a fun pain slut but I do understand it isn't everyones bag of fun.

BDSM covers a plethora of kinks and my imagination keeps the games and sessions fun.

Role-playing sessions [dragon lady boss - governess - cheating wife - Dr. - teacher - mommy - bad girl switch - forced feminization - power exchange fem-dom]are all characters I can easily morph into.

I enjoy lots of kinks and have EXPERIENCE in the fetishes listed below...


* Tease & Orgasm Denial
* Strap-On and Cock Sucker Training
* Prostate Play & Milking
* BDSM & Fetish Toy Exploration
* Mental Gymnastics/Mind Games
* Behavior Modification & Sissy Training
* Sadist & Masochistic Games
* Immobilization/Mummification
* Urethra Stuffing & Sounds
* Genital Torture
* Vintage Lingerie
* Queening
* Goddess Worship [some restrictions may or may not apply]
* CBT [mild to extreme]
* Small Penis Humiliation
* Verbal Humiliation [public or private]
* Old Fashioned Spankings [discipline & role-play]
* Forced-Fem with the Mistress [only] and her Strap-On
* Foot Worship & High Heels & Pantyhose/Stockings
* Restraining & Bondage Games
* Clothed Female Naked Man Games
* Enema Games
* Power Exchange D/s
* Cross-dressing & Dress-up
* Medical Fetish / Dr or Nurse Roleplay

The list above isn't be all end all but it does cover most of what I enjoy in Kink and Fetish. Since I do professional kink you are gonna need to know more than just what Im into. Check the post on YOU WANT MY TIME & ATTN ?? PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING


THE ACTIVITIES & SESSIONS LISTED BELOW REQUIRE RESERVATIONS 24 HOUR in ADVANCE & A MINIMUM 50$ DEPOSIT at the time you make your session reservation [I typically use "green dot money paks" when deposit is required]

* Medical Fetish [VERY EXPERIENCED in THIS FETISH]
* Total Transformation Makeovers & Shopping
* Glamour Photo Sessions [inquire directly about this service]
* Extended Sissy Training [long term contract]
* Double Domination with another dominant male / female
* Forced Bi/Fem & Cuckold activities with bull and myself
* Extended Chastity & Key Holding Services

Sessions must be booked directly via PHONE

... and for pete's sake it helps to already KNOW IF/WHEN YOU CAN PLAY PRIOR TO CALLING ME!!

Multiple Hour Sessions (including Overnights) are available


Thank you!

... MISTRESS NOIR ...
- Professional Kinkster & Fetishista -

Blocked/Private/Text CALLS are CALLS I DON'T ANSWER
** 4.8.0 - 2.5.5 - 6.2.2.1 **

... and what if you can't AFFORD TO SESSION WITH the Mistress?

Well thats a bummer...

Let the games begin - kinks and fetishes I enjoy!!

Would it help to blog on my kinky activity buffet of fetishes I like and the best way to schedule session with me.

There are those that fantasize and those that bring the fantasy to life. I live for the experience. I believe the fantasy is the script but it is the experience that takes the thoughts in their mind and brings them to life.


Let's play it out.. kinky play and fetish fantasies don't have to be all dark and dungeon. I am in control, I am dominating you but that doesn't mean you have accept painful roleplay. Unless of course you are a PAINSLUT!! I always welcome a fun pain slut but I do understand it isn't everyones bag of fun.

Im experienced in a plethora of kinks and my imagination keeps the games and sessions fun. Role-playing sessions [dragon lady boss - governess - cheating wife - Dr. - teacher - mommy - bad girl]are all characters I can easily morph into should the scene require it.I enjoy a plethora list of fetishes - OMG its an activity buffet…

LET THE GAMES BEGIN

* Tease & Denial
* Strap-On and SLUT Training
* Prostate Play & Milking
* Toy Exploration
* Mental Gymnastics/Mind Games
* Edge play
* S&M
* Immobilization/Mummification
* Urethra Stuffing and Sounds
* Genital Torture
* Vintage Lingerie
* Queening
* Goddess Worship [some restrictions may or may not apply]
* CBT mild to extreme
* SP Humiliation
* Verbal Humiliation [public or private]
* Spankings [discipline & role-play]
* Forced-Fem with the Mistress [only] and her strappy-0n
* Foot Worship & High Heels
* Restraining and Bondage Games
* Clothed Female Naked Man Games
* Water Sporting
* Power Exchange D/s
* Cross-dressing & Dress-up

THE ACTIVITIES & SESSIONS LISTED BELOW REQUIRE RESERVATIONS 24 HOUR in ADVANCE & A MINIMUM 50$ DEPOSIT at the time you make your session reservation [I typically use "green dot money paks" when deposit is required]
* Medical Fetish [VERY EXPERIENCED in THIS FETISH]
* Total Transformation Makeovers & Shopping
* Glamour Photo Sessions [inquire directly about this service]
* Extended Sissy Training [long term contract]
* Double Domination with another dominant male / female
* Forced Bi/Fem & Cuckold activities with bull and myself
* Extended Chastity & Key Holding Services

Sessions must be booked directly via phone and for pete sake KNOW IF & WHEN YOU CAN PLAY PRIOR to CALLING ME!!

I cater to fetish, kink, and fantasy in a safe private discreet domestic setting.

*INCALL ONLY* TEMPE,AZ CLOSE TO MILL AND UNIVERSITY... the FUN PLACE TO PLAY


>> My time alone is based on donation suggestions as follows:

Its up to you what you tribute but here is the range that works for me -$180/220 phr (unless its medical or some extreme roleplay in which session supplies could require additional expense)

>> Longer sessions (including overnights) are available


Thank you!

MISTRESS NOIR
Blocked/Private/Text calls are not answered
**4.8.0 - 2.5.5 - 6.2.2.1**

and what if you can't AFFORD TO SESSION WITH the Mistress? Well its a bummer but what one wants and what one gets largely depends on how attractive you make the offer to play with you ... Money Talks and so do a few choice other things if cash is something YOU CANT DO!!

?? CAN'T TRIBUTE WITH HARD COLD CASH??

Well hmmmm...

Are you a talented submissive who can serve me in trade by bartering their services or gifting items I have listed below:

- Black Durable Wrist and Ankle Cuffs

- STEEL RESTRAINTS AND BARS

- WEB MGR: for ongoing content managment

- "Metal/Welder" that has the resources and tools to make me a couple custom pieces for MY pleasure

- A dildo that fits my chin/thigh harness - A inflatable butt plug - A quality Enema bag with nozzles - Leather Restraints

- Insertable Pyrex Toys {inquire for specifics}

- Fetish Costume Designer and Tailoring Services

- Fetish Shoes and Boots [inquire for specifics] {I HAVE 1 SHOE SLAVE AT THIS TIME}

- Legal / Business Advisor

- Small Exam Table with Stirups

- Spanking Bench [must be a specific style so inquire before making or purchasing this item] {THIS IS BEING CUSTOM MADE}

- CORSETS

I HAVE A WISHLIST on THETHINGSIWANT.com UNDER MSNOIR