Mistress Noir says BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR.... no really!!!

What can your Mistress say except, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR BOYS & MEN!!! 

The video serves as a good reminder that not all our fantasies that play in our heads will play the same in somebody elses head. If you decide to pitch a fetish or fantasy to your partner its without a doubt a risky move with no way to determine its outcome, positive or negative. 

Women, when presented with kink and fetish, given no prior exposure, will typically not see your kink in the same way you have come to terms with it. If you wish for a woman to dominate you, its almost a given she isn't going to want to learn how to dominate you via you. We as humans have to have a reason to embrace new thoughts or consider things outside our comfort zone. 

My recommendation is if you wish to include your partner in your fetish, or wish they join in your kinky games you seek out some guidance, via a kink friendly counselor or someone who can give you ideas on how to pitch your desire so its given half a chance to the person you wish to "come out too". If she doesn't see the benefit of why she should let you wear panties while fucking her, she isn't going to hop on the panty bandwagon without some resistance. Conveying the value add of a kink or fetish incorporated into a real relationship can be a tricky thing to do, regardless of how open minded they are. 

I addvocate sharing and allowing partners the opportunity to embrace and incorporate kinks and fetishes with their partners. Just be cautious in how your unveil your kinks and realize the consequences of doing so sometimes wont be the outcome you pictured or hoped for. 

Happy kinky Saturday boys & girls,
Smooches, 
Mistress Noir