Mistress Noir says WHAT'S NEW PUSSYCAT?

Exciting stuff is brewing in my little chuck of cyberspace. 

In my efforts to be more accessible to those that seek my attn, I have decided to focus this year on improving my online presence. Giving you my devoted minions more opportunities to serve me, oogle me, communicate with me, and submit to me.

Wow!


Im getting a headache just thinking about all that. As most of you know by now I super duper HATE most of my technology devices. Learning all the stuff it requires to be a web persona of any interest is quite complicated. Well to me it is. I'm sure for the tech savvy ones out there this "whhhoaaa is me" rant is amusing. 

Anyways, one of new things that you will see is JD Stockroom featured here on my blog and website. 

I will be reviewing products and giving you my two cents worth of an opinion on various items and when I begin my tease and denial weekly cam sessions, depending on the tease session for the week, you will need to gather, borrow or buy the items on my "tease ingredient list" prior to joining in on the weekly tease session. Items that can be purchased thru my affiliate program will have links attached to them so you can purchase easily ... because we know you want to participate in the tease session with your Mistress. 

Who owns your orgasms my horny boys? That is correct, Mistress Noir does. 

When you wish to buy toys via online please consider buying them thru the links provided on the my website and here on my blog, as it gives your Mistress credit and points so she can buy more toys and fun devices that in turn benefit you. They say its all about the  Mistress? Right... I think if you haven't figured this out, its all about you my dear minions.  

REALLY NOW ... ITS ALL ABOUT YOU!!!

Mistress Noir says BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR.... no really!!!

What can your Mistress say except, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR BOYS & MEN!!! 

The video serves as a good reminder that not all our fantasies that play in our heads will play the same in somebody elses head. If you decide to pitch a fetish or fantasy to your partner its without a doubt a risky move with no way to determine its outcome, positive or negative. 

Women, when presented with kink and fetish, given no prior exposure, will typically not see your kink in the same way you have come to terms with it. If you wish for a woman to dominate you, its almost a given she isn't going to want to learn how to dominate you via you. We as humans have to have a reason to embrace new thoughts or consider things outside our comfort zone. 

My recommendation is if you wish to include your partner in your fetish, or wish they join in your kinky games you seek out some guidance, via a kink friendly counselor or someone who can give you ideas on how to pitch your desire so its given half a chance to the person you wish to "come out too". If she doesn't see the benefit of why she should let you wear panties while fucking her, she isn't going to hop on the panty bandwagon without some resistance. Conveying the value add of a kink or fetish incorporated into a real relationship can be a tricky thing to do, regardless of how open minded they are. 

I addvocate sharing and allowing partners the opportunity to embrace and incorporate kinks and fetishes with their partners. Just be cautious in how your unveil your kinks and realize the consequences of doing so sometimes wont be the outcome you pictured or hoped for. 

Happy kinky Saturday boys & girls,
Smooches, 
Mistress Noir

Mistress Noir shares a great note from a unhappy Kinkster

or so he thought he was unhappy....and it turned out nope he was happy after our session had a chance to sink in...

written 8 months ago:

hi ms noir.

i dont know if you remember me but we had a one time late night session a while ago then after that i pretty much pissed off. i wanted to apologize for how i acted after the fact. Im not a flakey person (even though im sure you disagree) and i just wanted to reach out and tell you how amazing of an experience that was. i didnt realize at the time but being with you really opened my eyes sexually, it was the first time that a fantasy became reality and honestly i didnt really know how to handle it. Im not making any excuses or anything and im sure youre beyond the point of caring of why i acted the way i did.

I guess the main point of this message was just for me to say thank you. thank you for everything. you are the first person in my life to impact my sexual desires in a positive way and im never gonna forget it. Ive never felt comfortable about my kinks and honestly ive never really felt comfortable in my own skin but that night really changed all that. I have nothing but genuine affection and gratitude for what you showed me and i just wanted to let you know because its been on my mind for awhile.

I love when someone gets something more than they gamble for. Then when the let me know,  even better!!!  

Smooches,
Mistress Noir

Couples are FUN FUN FUN to Session with...

So tonight Miss Fortunes and I had a treat.

Rare does it happen a couple calls me to schedule a session and tonight was the night. What a fun pair of people.

A guy and his girlfriend, both young, sexy, and way open minded.

OMG we played played played... and Miss Fortunes and I were properly naughty.

We perved on his girlfriend and we put him in chastity while we tied his girl up and hitachi'd her to the point she wanted to pee. Miss Fortunes, she impressed the hell out of me with all her rope skills. The couple impressed me with how open they were to exploring new, strange, sensual kink.

I loved spanking the girlfriends bum. She took quite a paddling and loved the big wooden paddle so much we gifted it to them when they left. Perfect bum for spanking.

The boyfriend was a great sport as we taught her how to prostate massage.

I enjoyed the girlfriend kissing my boobs, damn girl you kiss boobs fabulously.

All and all what a fucking great time. I do believe they will be back. She has referred us to a couple people at her poe already!!! Now that is very very cool, referrals. LUV IT!!!

Ahhhhhh ~

Gotta go - I have out of town guests and Im being so selfish and rude right now because I thought to myself... I MUST BLOG ABOUT PLAYING WITH FUN COUPLES NOW!!!

If there are anymore cool couples out there that wanna add some kink to what you are already enjoying with each other, give yourself and your partner a treat -> Mistress Noir

And then this morning an email from the girlfriend of the couple we played with... Hmmm I wonder if bitch will come back and play again? Hmmm the girlfriend, Fortunes and I alone for an hour? Very naughty thoughts quickly fill my head ~ I get to marinate on that for the next month!!

HER EMAIL BELOW-

I had a great time last night! Thank you and Mistress Fortunes for the experience... my bitch on the other hand was intimidated. We talked and i want to try it again next month. I'll be contacting you after we get our schedules worked out. In the meantime - what is the website where i can buy the hitachi and the cock lock?

You're the best!
Princess {bitch's girlfriend}