The day CHASTITY & CUM CONTROL became NO FUN! ... Mistress Noir

A real story about CHASTITY...

Chapter One

I am almost 50 now and I don’t know much about life.

I’ve only really had 2 girlfriends in my life and both relationships didn’t last very long.

Most of my early experiences were pathetic.

I was a musician. I partied, drank, did drugs and fucked strippers and groupies.
But when I say fuck, I didn’t realize that’s not what I was doing.

It wasn’t until several years went by that I realized that sticking my tiny penis in a girl for a few minutes, cumming and thinking that’s what sex was, wasn’t really.

35 years on, I know now I am not a real man.

I finally accepted what I was and reached out to Mistress Noir.

We recently got together and discussed my situation and she has taken control of my life.

It has started with her placing me in chastity.

She is now in control of my baby penis and all potential future orgasms if I ever have them again.

I am both terrified by this new way of life and what possible future humiliations I may face.

But I am determined to not disappoint her.

Update: He was good for 2 days, and then bolt cut the lock off himself, without my permission. Imagine that! Give the boy exactly what he wants and they still are not happy, and do whatever they damn well please.

Moral of this blog post is - If you are going to give me control over you, bolt cutting the control off without discussion of this with me isn't going to serve you or me well. In fact it pissed me off. It also makes me think long and hard about how much does a guy really want to be in chastity? Sounds fun in concept , but in reality if you are not going to give over the control and allow me the pleasure of controlling your CUM for the agreed upon time, be it 1 day, 7 days, or 30 day's etc... then why do I bother? The game isn't fun for me when you bolt cut your lock off and don't fulfill your end of the arrangement.  There was promise of paying penalty fine for breaking out without permission and a gift of a new strap on for his bad behavior but guess what?? That promise was never satisfied either. What's a dominatrix to do?

Well this is what I've decided...

Chastity key holding will be handled differently going foward. The rules of the game will be different. Future requests for this kink will be done with stricter consequences put into place. Upfront deposits will be required to enlist my role in holding you chaste, until I say you can CUM. Along with device choice... no longer will I take on chastity keyholding for those with CB Series devices unless it's been fitted with a lock that can't be bolt cut off. No plastic locks either. This means you will have to invest in a much more costly device prior to me locking you into it, and removing it on your own should not be an easy feat or you'll need to buy one that meets my new criteria.  Communication and control is the key for this to work. Me controlling your CUM must be possible to enforce or this kink sucks and I won't play no more. Which would be sad as I love controlling men's CUM.

Cheers,
Mistress Noir

SUMMER SESSION PROMOTION IN THE MONTH OF AUGUST w/ Mistress Noir

        The Dog Days of Summer

Oh my gosh when is it gonna be winter here in hot desert Arizona? ?

I would love to play with some friendly faces. What better way to surface past, present, and faithful minions of mine than to offer a secret summer special?!

If you have seen me in the past, you're on not on the local bad boy blacklist site, and you book a session in the month of August... you will be given a chance to accept a challenge that will, allow you to draw from the Mistress Pimp Cup to  ~>

 * *receive 30% up to 50% OFF an hour session with me. Some restrictions apply* *

Call for the details. Hurry August will be over before we know it. This special offer disappears at the end of the month.

Kinky kisses and fetish luv,
Your Mistress Noir

Respect is expected at what point? Mistress Noir 1

... from the first HELLO!

I have been doing fetish professionally for awhile now, so it amazes me at the disrespectful and downright rude behavior of those who've contacted me and engaged in my specialties. Now its trickled into those who I consider to be valued subby's/clients with established relationships between them and myself. 

What's up with mankind? 

Respect is still respect... right? 

Manners haven't been discontinued from the human race yet, have they? 

I checked we all revolve around a 24 hour clock. I'm going to assume each of us are all trying to maximize our time to its fullest each and every day, right? Do you tolerate a schedule of appointments that no call no show? Do you have a calendar of clients who fill the week and fail to properly cancel, or do at the very last minute, effectively killing your business opportunities one by one til you reach the end of a promising full business week? 

This isn't a sometimes occurrence, this is a damn epidemic with lots of mankind who are interacting with me. Now mind you, I'm not calling mankind and asking that they make appointments with me just to no show and cancel as fast as they schedule them... no! no! no! Mankind is calling me and setting up time with me of their own freewill. 

I assume they are aware of their schedules that day or the day + they book time with me and if their schedules change, the polite and unspoken business ettiquettte of manners would be contact the person with whom you made an appointment with if you have to reschedule A eeeeeeeeee cancel for whatever reason as soon as you know you cant keep a commitment you have initiated? Right? This is a no brainer in my humble opinion.8

  

Wow! No matter how I see this, it comes back as rude, disrespectful, calculating, time sabatoging, and personal quality of life monsters of the worst kinds. I pretty sure if I wasnt prepared and ready for those that come to see me, or accept session requests and then didnt show up to our schedules session time, I would have zero clients and a pretty bad rap with mankind who would post mean reviews all over our cyber land bitching and moaning how flaky I was and how terrible I was for being a scamy lazy provider wasting everyones scared and vauable time, right?

Is it because what I do falls under the "Adult Industry" that warrants one to lose their respect for women as a whole? Is it because internet porn is so FREE anymore that you think I should be treated as frivolously as you do your XTUBE video clips? Is it the same now that I should be at your finger tips and instant gratification?! Do you think we should be waiting for your call, be available instantly because you are in my area or right around the corner? Are adult providers a lower class human than your wife, mother, daughter, sister? Does providing a safe outlet for your fetish exploration disqualify me from being respected by those that procure services from a adult provider? Maybe our time is less important than yours? Our lives don't matter beyond the time you interact with me directly? I don't know what the real reasons are but damn it I'm gonna start a research poll, I'm curious and want to know whats going on in the brains of you mankind.

But in the mean time I am going to ask you to change your bad behavior mankind.

* Don't be a time blocker, or a time waster.
* If you are not ready for a session with me in person, do not make an appointment and then no call no show.
* Don't call me without giving me at least an hour to prepare for your time with me.
* Don't disrespect the service I am providing you by trying to negotiate cheaper tributes or asking me to do my livelihood pro-bono with you.
* Don't ask me to do sexual acts as I am not an escort.
* If you don't understand what a fetish is, or the basic concepts of domination, don't ask me to explain it to you over the phone. Google is your friend just like it is for me too.  Do your homework.

Thank you!
Noir (and that's Mistress Noir to you)