Merry 🎄 Christmas Bitches and Sluts....

Where are all my Ho Ho Hos!??

Thank you to the subs who didn't forget their Mistress for Christmas. 🥰

Amazon gift card from Mr W...😘

Yandy money from Mr Lexus...😘

Cash from Mr Naughty...😘

Drinks from Mr Electric...🤪

A hard time from a couple of losers! Actually there were a few... whats up with that boys? 🤨

If you forgot your Mistress this Christmas 🎄 

You can always book a session so the rent can be paid.  

I got alittle change in my pocket going... JINGLE JIGGLE BITCHES!  🤣 I think there is a song that goes like that. 

Gratitude goes both ways. ..

I had a client yesterday who came to me feeling broken, frustrated, and didnt know what to do with his current situation. I wont go into the details but I do want share his kind note he sent me a few hours after he left. 

Thank you so much for the wonderful experience today. You are very accommodating and welcoming and understanding. The world needs more people like you. I look forward to our next opportunity to meet

It makes me feel good to know that I help people. I genuinely like giving people an outlet to be, do, explore, experience the things n stuff they want to experience in kink and fetish activities that they can not otherwise explore alone.  

Cheers and happy tuesday kinky peeps!

Stay healthy, pervy and enjoy today. 

The Mistress Noir

When 2 people are different you can still explore together and it be magical

Watch This 👍 In the world of BDSM there is the misconception that both parties MUST share the same kinks. 🤔 No that's not the case. I think its more cerebral than that. "Power Exchange" is a aspect of my kinky persona that seems to be a given. Those that know me professionally totally get or feel I'm in control of the time we spend together. I orchestrate what is explored with those who seek me to fascilitate kinky things n stuff. I'm not roleplaying a Dominatrix, I am a dominant. But as a fetish fascilitator, when someone seeks me out to explore a fetish, experience a kinky scenario, roleplay a specific fantasy it my job to create a experience that is much like what is happening in this video I have linked in this post. A good professional dominatrix can take two world and blend together a experience that leaves you feeling like you just experienced something magical. Not everyone who is dominant can pull off Power Exchange successfully, though one may think it is a given. Power Exchange is one of those elements in BDSM that goes without saying... EXPECTED to be delivered by the Dominant. Its magical between two people when explored with trust. This video while not bdsm related still shows that 2 people from different worlds can come together and explore something together beautifully. There is trust, each bringing their strengths to the moment and allowing what transpires from coming together be magic. Long story short sometimes my clients and I are from 2 very different worlds, but when you step into my kinky world of bdsm it's my goal to create experiences the feel kinda like how the two who dance in this video... MAGICAL. (Fetish and Kinky... magical). Happy Sunday/Funday! Mistress Noir

Surviving the 14th...

I did! Did you? Why is there so much energy misused on this day? If you love someone show it...  dont bitch about having to show someone they are loved. You dont have to $pend alot of money to say I LOVE YOU! You just have to be creative. It gets the most mileage if its done from the heart❣

How do we reach you Mistress Noir? If you have my number... JUST CALL ME or follow the instructions in this post

樂Finding me isn't easy these days but I have had a few you figure it out.

If you  look at this blog on the right column at the top☝️ there should be a contact me box ✍ where you can put your info in and it will alert me with your contact info.
Note: If you are on a mobile device you will need to scroll down to the bottom of this page and click on "View Web Version" to see the contact box.

I'm hoping I set it up correctly  as technology isn't my 1st skill of greatness.

Give me 24 hours to respond.✔

If you haven't heard from me within 24 hours, please send a follow up email to: 

themistressnoir@gmail.com

Please include purpose in which you seek my attn.
Your name
Your contact info email and a valid phone number
Best time to contact you on your phone number (my goal isn't to bother you when its not convenient)
If you are someone I've seen in the past please let me know and connect the dots for me.

I can be found on fetlife as MSNOIR
and
I'm on niteflirt as MSNOIR too. 

I'm still around peeps just juggling life and things n stuff.

Cheers,
The Mistress Noir

2019. . . 365 days to live our lives the way we want too!

Bling.    I see things shiny in 2019..... happy new year kinky things.... peeps... cheers, Noir

Another dear friend and colleague was taken away this last Sunday

Sadie Hawkins, a friend, a mentor, a fellow professional Dominatrix, was murdered in a senseless fight with her EX slave Fiona last Sunday. In  the process of arresting Fiona, she took her own life... now 2 people are gone in a tragic and violent event that has left our bdsm community shocked and outraged. Sadie was an amazing woman who was held with great regard in the lifestyle. I wish her family and friends comfort in this horrific moment. Rest in Peace Miss Sadie. You will be missed.

Mistress Noir teases the foot fetishist...

I have to work hard at staying so pale...

Seeing that I live in a city that has 527 sunny days every year! Lol... (okay maybe 315 sunny days a year)

I love the contrast of black against my white skin!

Enjoy the weekend kinksters!

Cheers,
Noir

Why do men want to go see a DOMINATRIX? Mistress Noir has some thoughts on this!

If you are a guy reading this - hopefully it validates what is your reality on this topic and if you are a female reading this, maybe you really want to know WTF?
1. No judgment
2. Safety
3. Specializing in specific niches and skills and/or experiences
4. No ongoing emotional attachment
5. Equipped with all props and supplies
6. Schedule compatibility
7. Partner has expressed no interest in kink or has reacted negative to participating in kink related activities

8. Creative roleplays

9. They feel like they can let their guard down without worrying about upsetting their social circles, family dynamic, or jeopardizing career for the fact most pro's hold discretion as something that is a given with the job

10. Dominatrix services typically do not offer sex in their sessions

11. Trust

12. Its in a controlled environment
13. We have cool toys and have invested in gear that goes with bdsm activities. The stuff isn't cheap!
14. We are networked and known within the kink community

Mistress Noir and end of the year 💣🍾2016 buh... bye!

2016...

This year was an interesting one.  While it brought alot of endings I believe in the circle/cycle of life. So with endings, I hope this allows new beginnings.

I stepped out of my comfort zone on a few people, places, and things. I was pleasantly surprised on some and totally called it with the red flag ones!!! We run from red flag types now.

I found some lost friendships and rekindled the relationships. I found out how much I could live without certain drama.

I made choices about things and ideas that could effect me for years to come. Growth is always a good thing, right?!!

I lost a best friend, and 2 others who were in their own ways very important to me. Holly, Miss Fortunes rest in peace.

I watched my pride n joy grow up a bit more (Cringing empty nest is lurking in the future.) 

I'm giving more time and attn to what I want to satisfy meaning... that which lurks kinky inside me. I found I can thrive on less trouble and didn't have to invite bullshit along for the ride this year.

Was it a good year? Not really but it wasn't a bad year either.  Lets say I hope the year of 2017 is a magical year!!! I am ready for more fun and adventure. Anybody up for such?  Heck yeah!!! Let go!!!

Cheers,
Noir

A cool strap on .... exists!

Now boys.....this is a fine strap on... both boys and girls can get their kicks or is it kinks on with this fun new style of strap on. Its hollow but still works without a dick driving it..cuckolding and chastity games just got a bit more evil didn't they?!

I have it and I use it. Play ... play ... lol... play! Who's my bitch now?

Happy Holidays
Mistress Noir

Mistress Noir's slave shared his thoughts on whats its like to be my domestic slave...

 Warm fuzzies from a subby posted online ...

Mistress is stunningly beautiful, strict, demanding and worth every moment i am allowed to spend with her. Mistress is, in every sense, the real deal. Her wide array of toys (animate and inanimate) makes every experience fulfilling. Anyone allowed to be in Her stable of slaves and minions will be deeply honored to experience Her dominant ways. i love being Her sub. You would, too.

Then a few months later he says some more about his time with me ...

Mistress allowed me to be her house slave. After disrobing and receiving a butt plug and nipple clamps, I cleaned toilets, showers, bath tubs, floors, sinks, and mirrors. I cleaned her car and garage. I was then placed in a box and peered through a slit as Mistress pleased herself. The last thing i cleaned was her fingers. If you are a sub, you must contact Mistress, she is the best.

 Smooches, 

          Mistress Noir

DIARY OF A CHASTITY EXPERIMENT ... Mistress Noir shares her experience...

 Chastity - Ruined Orgasms - Orgasm Denial

CB3000 or 8000 (lol) whatever ... Its a Cage for Your Cock

 21 days was the deal and he made it to 17 ... 

Here is a journal of our chastity experience.

http://chastityslaveofnoir.blogspot.com/

Yes, I was pissed how it ended but the experiment itself was a great learning experience and Im glad I did it as well as keeping a journal with the slave that agreed to do this experiment. 

As you can see, its an ungodly hour so its time to say Publish so I can go to bed. This technology stuff is kicking my brain with  all the nuances of making technology get up on the cloud. 

and you say, "Thank you Mistress Noir"... you are welcome subby's!!


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Social Media and Technology LOVE/HATE Relationship - The Mistress Noir

Just a quick note ... this internet cyberland social media stuff is another fucking full time job to manage...
Ugh!!!
That is, all I'm ranting about tonight!!!
Hope you all appreciate my New Years Resolution to get it together on the world wide web...

Kinky Kisses from your Mistress Noir

Mistress Noir shares a great note from a unhappy Kinkster

or so he thought he was unhappy....and it turned out nope he was happy after our session had a chance to sink in...

written 8 months ago:

hi ms noir.

i dont know if you remember me but we had a one time late night session a while ago then after that i pretty much pissed off. i wanted to apologize for how i acted after the fact. Im not a flakey person (even though im sure you disagree) and i just wanted to reach out and tell you how amazing of an experience that was. i didnt realize at the time but being with you really opened my eyes sexually, it was the first time that a fantasy became reality and honestly i didnt really know how to handle it. Im not making any excuses or anything and im sure youre beyond the point of caring of why i acted the way i did.

I guess the main point of this message was just for me to say thank you. thank you for everything. you are the first person in my life to impact my sexual desires in a positive way and im never gonna forget it. Ive never felt comfortable about my kinks and honestly ive never really felt comfortable in my own skin but that night really changed all that. I have nothing but genuine affection and gratitude for what you showed me and i just wanted to let you know because its been on my mind for awhile.

I love when someone gets something more than they gamble for. Then when the let me know,  even better!!!  

Smooches,
Mistress Noir

IM BORED ITS HOT and IM REALLY REALLY BORED!!

Its the dog days of a Phoenix mid-summer and I hate the heat!!! But its HOT here and nothing I can do to change the dynamics of hell hot summer sunshine and the heat it produces... EXCEPT play in the bird bath located in the neighbors front yard... in the middle of the night!!! Yeah true story and here is the picture to prove it!!!

Laugh - you know this must have been funny ... :@}~

Noir