SO YOU WANT TO BE MY OWNED PROPERTY IN REAL LIFE??

Do you really think you have what it takes to be owned by Dominant Female in a BDSM sort of way? Well my dear newbie you are very very new and Im wondering are you sure you understand what you are asking for? A DOMINANT FEMALE IN YOUR LIFE?! Correct? ... 24 hours has passed - I asked you to go to a specific group and read thru it and let me know 3 things you found interesting... You acknowledged my request, you responded Yes Ma'am. A man's word has value with me. As a Dominant female capable of understanding a man's need for power play and his desire for psychologcal attn, kink and control interests, curious, sincere, and fetishized. I'm very interested in personal opportunities that allow me to meet others who share a true interest in the idea of a in real life FLR D/s relationship. Men are often titilated by the idea, marinate on the possibilities, maybe they have found some fetish porn, read something, watched something giving you point of reference. The very idea can be quite intoxicating... In real life - kink can't begin until trust is established between two humans consenting. Words matter and actions are going to define how much you want what you profess. If you were truly a man that has the natural potential (without ever trying anything in the bdsm lifestyle) to give himself to a strong Dominant female, you would have follow thru on the small request I made of you. My request has a time attached, for the purpose of seeing where you are at on a very basic level. We are all busy. I'm interested in only those that have a valid natural interest. New or not a man's word has weight, if I ask you something and you commit to a action, a response, a follow thru, I seek someone who understands if he gives a yes Ma'am to his Mistress - that's the equivalent of a man's word. Very few understand the reality of 24/7 isn't like the fetish porn you watch. so you want me to own you? Lol.... loooool.... loooooooooool.... you cannot handle the truth. Mistress Noir

Only Half the Story - You CRAZY Bitch ....

Man o Man I have had this homework since last week... and just now sitting down to do it or my partner in crime is gonna turn into a CRAZY BITCH on me. [Luv ya Miss F] We spend alot of time together and NOTHING is BETTER THAN having fun together on a work night with someone who knows us well or at least one of us well.

Miss F has a favorite regular, Hitachi Man he is fondly called. Did you know if you have been given a nickname by us that means you are in the super duper special club of ours? Ha ha nope I didn't know it either. Well one of the perks of being a VIP of ours is you get PERKS my dear. Whats the perks you might ask. Oh no can't tell ya - you need to become a VIP and find out for yourself.

Back to the details details .... about what happened the other night. I will tell you - There are the rare few that can TOP me but it does happen occasionally. I dont think I could be a professional submissive but man o man I understand what it is about being a switch dominant. I tend to need refreshment periods where I am put in the same situations many find themselves when they turn themselves over to me for a power exchange session. I have made a personal commitment to me, to not put others in situations I cant relate too or understand. Its just not a good idea. So when Holly came to me and asked if I was up for a role reversal session I said heck yeah !! Lets rock this opportunity. I actually felt a bit honored that my BFF shared a night of fun with her most favorite of favorite regulars the ever forever respected Hitachi Man.

My my my... it was fun. We spent a good hour plus fretting costumes. Good lord the BFF threw a holy loving tizzy when she got a text 10 min out that we had our costumes already picked and they were with him. I was told we couldnt say a word upon his arrival and if we did we'd be banned to the porch naked. HUMMPF... thats not nice.

Meanwhile tizzies are to be had as we both have body conscious issues and getting naked is never an option either of us relish. NOR IS WEARING A COSTUME THAT MAKES YOU LOOK HORRID AND HAPLESS.  Just the idea of a man bringing our outfits freaked us both a bit.  But I was brave.... giggle - hey this is MY side of the story so I get to tell it my way. Her side is on her blog. Anyways - a couple shots of vodka made from grapes no less and I was A-ok and would have gotten neked had it been the request but no I was given the cutest latex costume.

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh- I know this is gonna shock the masses but this would be the very first time I have ever worn latex. It wasnt the cheapo stuff either it was buttery yummy and made me feel very very kinky sexy  and I like that feeling alot.

Once costumes were donned we then had to wear latex hoods ... holy mother of kinky stinky terror I was asked to wear a hood with a penis sticking out from the mouth area. Ummm hell no - veto I say.  WE compromised with another less decorated one and once the hood was zipped on our mouthes had to turn off.

Now word on the street is IM ALOT OF WORK - and I still dont know if that is a compliment or not. Its not even the first time I have heard such a remark, me a handful???. Sheesh -giggling if that is the case then Holly and I together are _________ a full blown workout.

He had us hooded and wow that is an experience. Then came bondage. Something about being blindfolded and tied up so there wouldnt be any wiggling... its freeing in a way because then you are left to accept whatever your fate is, because there isnt a damn thing I can do about it.

Now I know Miss F is waiting for the juicy details of what happened to me while she was in the other room being naughty and escaping and going to the bathroom but I am such a in the moment girl that I dont think my  little pillow talk of the experience is gonna sate her curiosity. But I will kiss and tell from my perspective.

I pushed the envelope and tested the sternness of my TOP for the evening. I silently assess the scenario. Hitachi was getting what he threatened last time he played with us. Well me, and that serious spanking. Both of us were in bondage and hooded in separate rooms of our playspace. [thats right our playspace has multiple rooms and tons of toys and props- self promote sha-grin sha-grin] He now had us both where he wanted us and that in itself was some work on his part.

Actually the details of this part get a bit fuzzy, [sorry BFF ;0).. ] but I know I musta pushed buttons right away as I was rewarded and just a instant from there I was being punished for hmmmm I can't remember. He left the hitachi on but nowhere near anything helpful or useful for me to fully enjoy it. Then he was off to tend to my troublemaker BFF and he was gone foreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeever.... [see how the stories differ? Ive already read her blog accounting the evening and hmmmm she is trouble]

The buzzzing was getting the best of my situation, so I somehow manage to wiggle wiggle wiggle myself around to a position that was ahhhhhh much better to enjoy the buzz of the Hitachi wand. I guess I didn't really listen well as I  am pretty sure he told me not to move or wiggle when he left to tend to my BFF. I wiggle.

Upon his return, I could tell Hitachi Man was earning his playtime, I could pick up on his heightened breathing. Back and forth tending to 2 girls was fun? Sounds like alot of work to me. This is the part that gets really fuzzy for me.... but all I can say is I lived!! I am a better person because of it. I experienced things I hadnt been in touch with in a while and whatever Hitachi did in conclusion OMG ... its good to be me. me ME... [yeah its work, but I love it]

Thats my story and I am sticking to it... You Bitch You CRrrraZZY Bitch.... [lmao- inside joke between Miss F and I. I laugh so hard I cry] 
 Read Fortunes Half of the Story

mistress noir's fridays are for personal transformation... VANILLA?

Fridays are set aside to transition from Dominatrix back into my "other" role ... a personal life. Crazy I have to spend a day to switch from one head to the other and all the tasks I do to make it happen.

Happy friday and enjoy your weekend. I personally do enjoy the time I spend on the weekends with family and friends and it makes me all a better domme to you from Sundays after 6pm til friday noon.

Crazy huh? Its like can I roleplay vanilla? giggle yes but only for a couple days. LOL

Mistress Noir

A personal SUBMISSIVE - Do the even exist?

TO SUBMIT:
To overcome resistance to direction & yield one(self) to the will of another.

"Oh MISTRESS Oh MISTRESS come see what I can do with a sock and a rock and a little piece of leather string. I have a webcam which I beg of you to view - because when I say I want to serve you I really mean ...its all about me and my fetishes and the efforts made at getting me and my willie off...."
...Are you serious?

When you are serving a Mistress, why should it feel so damn labor intensive on my part?

If you want to serve me, you need to learn what submission is in the real world, which is in MY world.

Its not how well you lick on my ya ya...

Or that you crave a strap-on up your ass...

It has nothing to do with YOU actually.

The male fantasy has the dominant female serving all his kinky fetish needs and sweetie that is SO NOT submitting to me.

Submission CANNOT be imposed.

Control CAN be imposed or FORCED.

Often it is accomplished through tools of humiliation, intimidation, fear, pain, guilt and/or shame.

Dominants control not by fear, but by building desire in the submissive to obey.



BEING SUBMISSIVE IN CONCEPT IS A WHOLE DIFFERENT REALITY from being SUBMISSIVE IN THE REAL WORLD ON A DAILY BASIS ... 24/7

Real submissives actually submit. They submit more than just their bodies and do not only submit when they "feel like it" doing activities that are self serving for their pleasure ultimately in the acts of submssion they are engaging in.

Submission is not always easy at the hands of a strong dominant female. Submission doesn't give you a free pass from making decisions, thinking, or being responsible for your life and ultimate happiness.

Despite what those online think they can offer via a webcam or yahoo chat, in order to be a cherished sub, you will give of yourself even when you may not want to.

At some point I want to feel pride in your loyal devotion to me. If I snap my fingers across a room, you know what is expected of you at that moment and its obvious you belong to me and me alone.

Submission is NOT a sexual act - but sexual acts could be acts of submission...

YOU MUST EARN MY DESIRE FOR YOU...

Smart Alpha Males that kneel before me naked and give me the power to dangle over them the possibilities of ANYTHING I SO DESIRE is the most intoxicating feeling I can compare it too...

Mental gymnastics is a more mind fuck then a head game. I like to play in a submissives brain as much as I like to play with their body.

To serve me is more than knowing how to use your tongue orally or sitting in front of a computer screen having me watch you do STUPID things that feed your kinks and desires. Seriously, what kind of benefit do you think it gives me to watch you stroking your dick over a webcam? Serving me in a personal role, has nothing to do with YOUR laundry list of activities that you think is submission to me when its actually activities that are most likely self serving to your kinky desires.

Does a personal submissive exist?

Im grateful I have submissive clients... they are real and they do exist!!

THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!

Need I say it? Damn its hot here today!!

Cheers,

Noir