Mistress Noir says BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR.... no really!!!

What can your Mistress say except, BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR BOYS & MEN!!! 

The video serves as a good reminder that not all our fantasies that play in our heads will play the same in somebody elses head. If you decide to pitch a fetish or fantasy to your partner its without a doubt a risky move with no way to determine its outcome, positive or negative. 

Women, when presented with kink and fetish, given no prior exposure, will typically not see your kink in the same way you have come to terms with it. If you wish for a woman to dominate you, its almost a given she isn't going to want to learn how to dominate you via you. We as humans have to have a reason to embrace new thoughts or consider things outside our comfort zone. 

My recommendation is if you wish to include your partner in your fetish, or wish they join in your kinky games you seek out some guidance, via a kink friendly counselor or someone who can give you ideas on how to pitch your desire so its given half a chance to the person you wish to "come out too". If she doesn't see the benefit of why she should let you wear panties while fucking her, she isn't going to hop on the panty bandwagon without some resistance. Conveying the value add of a kink or fetish incorporated into a real relationship can be a tricky thing to do, regardless of how open minded they are. 

I addvocate sharing and allowing partners the opportunity to embrace and incorporate kinks and fetishes with their partners. Just be cautious in how your unveil your kinks and realize the consequences of doing so sometimes wont be the outcome you pictured or hoped for. 

Happy kinky Saturday boys & girls,
Smooches, 
Mistress Noir

What my cucked Slut had to say about Sunday Night

Mistress, thank you for meeting with me earlier this week and providing me a scene that was all the fantasy I could hope for. You present me with 3 choices and I am glad of the choice I made, because little did I realize it at the time, it was a choice that also provided you with the your favorite fantasies....two sluts under your control.

Of course, I enjoyed that the first thing you did was tie up my cock in a cute pink ribbon, making me understand that I was something less than a REAL MAN while in your presence. Later you had me remove my clothes and put on a cute little outfit and pink panties. I felt so fem, and also felt very slutty. It was the one thing you told me you wanted the most out of me, to be as slutty as I could be. I was well on the way as I already felt like a slut, but better yet...your slut.

Now the best part of the evening was you had another slut waiting when I got there. I enjoyed meeting Slut K and performing in scenes with her for your pleasure. We both were total sluts for you. She was far more experienced than I, so I learned a lot that evening. You both even used my pussy for your pleasure. But the best part for me, was when Slut K was tied down, and I was told to give my cock to Slut K's mouth while you took her from behind. It was so incredibly hot, I nearly came within 30-40 seconds and had to fight to keep from cumming too soon (Plus you ordered me NOT to cum at that point). I will say that Slut K knows how to work her mouth and she was the best I have ever experienced, and would easily come back to be in a scene with her again. I also felt very comfortable around her, so you made an excellent pick in matching her up with me to have two sluts at your command.

All that sluttiness lasted a couple of hours and I can honestly say I have never had an experience like that, which makes you a master of your craft. Thank you for including me in such a hot scene and allowing me to experience something that people in the lifestyle experience, while we others not in the lifestyle normally do not.

Excellent!

But you!

You are such a hot tease. The pics drive me crazy. You know my fetish weakness and you use it to tease me and play with my mind.

And then there is the crush. I LOVE so many things about you. (No, I am not going to drop everything and ask you to marry me...whoops, maybe I already did....whoops...). Your intelligent witty banter, your dominance. I was thinking when you shouted that YOU are the ALPHA FEMALE in the room....yeah, she is. I thought about what my personal relationship with you would be and you would definitely be the dominant one in our personal relationship and I would just learn to get along or get out of the way, even though I would challenge you for dominance from time to time. But it would be one of the things you would respect me for, instead of being just like all the other whiny wimps out there that can't deal with a dominant woman.

So my interest in you continues. We will keep our relationship as it is for a while longer. I did get some direction from work. I expect I will conclude my time out west here by Thanksgiving, Christmas at the latest. So we have a short period of time to wrap up all lessons here.

My Mistress...you have seriously impressed me. Were I free, I would SERIOUSLY banter back and forth with you until I had your strong interest. (isn't that flirting?).

So play with my crush. You have me under your spell....more or less.

slut

C'dave53

Tonight is Behavior Modification Night Part II

Tonight I have a my cucked slut for a sleepover...

Phase II of his behavior modification training is planned for tonight.

I have brought in a Queen of being a SLUT... her and I together are going to teach my little eager beaver that being a slut is harder than it looks and he will require additional labor to make him superslutty so he's gonna have to endure.

But first we are going to have a nice dinner and then oh boy ... I will update on my blog how the night progressed.

and hey Im sorry I don't blog as much as I probably should but hey you don't leave me comments letting me know you are reading my blah blah blah ... so there!!! LOL

Cheers,

The Mistress NOir

A CUCKED SESSION WITH MISTRESS NOIR

When I get an email like this... it feels tingly good.

I appreciate when my clients take a moment and follow up our sessions with feedback. (BAD OR GOOD) Its valuable and it makes me a better fetish facilitator, dominatrix and Mistress at the end of the day. Its sessions such as this one, that keeps me motivated to do what I do... FACILITATE FANTASY, NURTURE KINK, and provide safe EXPLORATION of FETISHES to those that want ... need... crave what I can offer in the role of your DOMINATRIX.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend, its triple digits in Phx today... ick!!

Mistress Noir



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A warm and fuzzy email recv'd after our session friday -

THANK YOU


I would like to take a few more minutes and tell you again how much I enjoyed our session. It was incredible. I enjoyed our talk afterward and appreciated your opinion and candor. I tried to be open and upfront and honest in my views as well.

I have to admit, the high point for me was kneeling in front of you, masturbating while you were keeping your face in close proximity to mine and hurting me by squeezing my nipples. Never have I felt so dirty, so nasty, so cheap, so slutty, and so owned. I think I almost would have done anything at that point. I wished you had told me to tell you I was your dirty little whore...I would have so felt like your dirty little whore and would have easily told you, and said anything you wanted to hear from me. I felt so "handled" and so "owned".

Things I liked...
-told to strip as soon as I got in the door
-made to wear feminine (and slutty) lingerie for the session
-trained to suck a dildo
-having you penetrate me with your hand. I might next time see about a small dick penetrate me. Not totally ready for it yet. That is why I need a good and loving Mistress to train me to cuckoldem.I would LOVE to be closely held by my Mistress as she fucks my man pussy gently. In touching my prostrate....I was actually more curious than anything...what is prostrate milking? Would you have done that to me? I was very nervous and scared.
-I loved whatever humiliation you gave.
-Loved it when you inspected my little dick and kept commenting about it.
-Loved it when you told me you were going to turn me into a girl, a sissy girly slut.
-I loved the way you made eye contact with me and forced yourself on my via eye contact.
-I LOVED your lipstick.....and LOVED it when you had your lips inches away from mine. I really though you were going to kiss me. I would love to be kissed by my Mistress when looking like a slut.

Things I did not like...
-I was not ready for spanking, though you did not go overboard. Thanks. So really, at the level you did, I was OK, I just would not have liked it if it went way too far.
-hurting my nipples. OK, I did not like the severity, and yet I loved it as it made me so much more submissive, felt so much more dirty and felt so owned by you at that time.
penetration....I will need to get used to that little by little..

I really do want to experience the real role of a cuckold to beautiful Mistress (you are one) and her lover...to be forced, or forcefully coerced into sucking her mans dick. I would love to be stood up to her lover and compare his dick to mine side by side, telling me to submit to the REAL man in the room by putting a REAL cock in my mouth. I would love to do clean up duty, and lick his cum off you. I do want to experience that. One day perhaps, if I find the right Mistress wherever I am located.

At the end when we talked, I asked you how I did and if I had potential. I told you if I ever got divorced, I would want to marry another woman who it would be OK by me to take on other lovers and fuck other men. I told you I think I would be OK with that, You told me you thought it would not take long for that woman to assert herself into making me her cuckold. I would love to hear more of your thoughts on (1) my potential as a sissy slut for you personally if I was in Phoenix/Tempe area, and would it be feasible while i was still ___________. And (2) If I did remarry, based on what you know about me, and talked with me about, would I really be a cuckold to my new wife? I think I could be, but she would have to be very dominating in our relationship. I always felt my next wife could have other lovers as long as she came home to me in my bed.

One last question...would you want to take me on as your sissy slut if I moved this way? The reason I asked is I do have a job I am looking at based in Central Arizona. So if I interviewed and got the job, I would move here. And I crave Domination and Humiliation and have no one that understands that about me and will work with me.

Just curious.



Thanks again, so many times, thanks.
(Cuck'D53)