Scenting fetishes....

Those of you who have scenting fetishes know the power one has to imprint themselves on you for life. Well this client of mine is hooked on my smell...

He sent me an email about something that happened to him and I think it's funny so I'm sharing it with you!

I can't make this stuff up folks!

Enjoy!!!
Mistress Noir

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Hi Mistress Noir,

The strangest thing happened today.  Let me give you a little background first

I lost my job 2 weeks ago and decided to drive for Uber to make some money.  When you figure out who this is, you will probably remember how much I enjoy the scent of that ever so special place, between your thighs.  I have mentioned that if someone could make a perfume with that special scent they would make a fortune.

Anyway, I picked up a couple going to a party.  When the woman got in the car, my mind raced to that special place between your thighs.  The perfume he was wearing was more erotic than any I've ever smelled and I immediately thought, finally, someone has developed a perfume with the mild scent of pussy.....almost.  She was wearing a lot of the perfume and it normally would have overwhelmed me.  But I just couldn't get enough!  Every time I inhaled my mind took me to your precious labia and clit as I tried to please you while collecting your scent over my face.  My mind was between your legs!  They had to stop for a bottle of wine to take to the party and left me in the car with my excitement.  I closed my eyes breathing as deeply as I could, trying to inhale as much of that scent as I could. Over the ten minutes or so they were out of the car the smell faded somewhat but when they returned and the scent became stronger again I decided that I had to ask the name of the perfume.  The husband seemed to be upset that I asked.  I assume he had the same reaction to the perfume I had and became at least a little jealous that I noticed.  He had to know what I noticed, the smell was SO erotic!

Anyway, she told me she wasn't sure of the name.  My best guess is that she knows the effect it has on men and wants to keep it to herself.  I was ready to worship her on the spot!  She told me she got it at Nordstrom's and that it is a combination of scents and you are supposed to put them on in layers.  I wonder if maybe, she added a little of her personal scent to the perfume.  She could easily reach between her legs, dab a little pussy juice on a finger and mix it in with whatever she bought.

Now, I've been excited for several hours, am all drippy and hope the scent of her perfume is still lingering in my car in the morning.

I also hope I find a job soon and am able to return to that glorious treasure chest of ever so erotic scent between your legs.

I hope you don't mind me sharing this with you.  I had to share it with someone and thought you would understand because you know how I so enjoy your scent!

Submissively,

T

Men... on Time! You need to know....

Ok boys out comes my snappy... this happens alot and when it does egads it pisses me off.
Let's just make this blog about time...

When someone calls me I can usually see them within 60 to 120 minutes from when you call. I can NOT see someone now or in a few min from your call. Ever! I always need an hour of lead time...at a minimum, I prefer 2.

Why ??? Because i see you in a space that  I call home. Just because it's not dedicated play space -that means I must turn my space into a play space. No folks I don't run around in my Domme attire  and my space... also shared living space usually needs to get prepped for your session. I think you guys don't realize but preparation and clean up adds time to the session. The behind the scenes work makes YOUR session smooth, and me a better Domme facilitator. Respecting someone's time makes the experience better for both sides.

Don't arrive late...
Don't arrive early...
Don't make an appt... then not call  or text and  just not.show up...
Don't book time then cancel 20 minutes or wait til you should be here then call to let me know you are not coming.

It's rude!
Technology makes it very easy to undo whatever you have set into motion. Shit happens I do understand but when you hold someones time hostage then you for whatever reason do not keep your session... you have wasted their time, you have made a person stop they were doing at that moment in time 2 put their life on hold and then go prepare for you and experience that you have initiated not I you called me... now even though you haven't even arrived yet I'm spending an hour to make your fantasy the best that I can be once you arrive so can you imagine what it's like when there's no fantasies to fulfill and nobody arrives.

Words don't even describe the voodoo I want to cast when that happens. Not  showing  up  is the worst, but arriving early and arriving late also super sucks. I'm not a big clock watcher but when I only have one hour to get prepared and I might not even be home and I race home and fly about to create my magic so that I'm ready when you get here and you try to get here early that fucks with me and every phone call and every text in that window of an hour makes it 5 or 10 minutes even longer for me to get ready because I have to stop answer the phone or have to answer a text and it is also time absorbing so don't text during that window of our less it's to say ma'am I'm not coming so I can stop getting ready for you if you're not going to show up that's the polite and nice thing to do the Golden Rule  boys .... thr Golden Rule! Late is late..
And people who run late just know you're going to get 10 slots for every minute you show up late so you could start this session with a great big old 1000 SWAT spanking if you're dilly dallying to arrive. Ugh! Right...

I respect your time you respect my time communication is key even before you get here if you can communicate to come communicate that you can't come if you can't come otherwise.... show up! We're going to have a great time.

I'll probably take this post down once I see a difference in the time management or the time respect from you that are coming to request my time it's very easy...  you just have to show the fuck up... and do so on time.

Thanks
Mistress Noir

Peek a boo with a service sissy

Just goofing off with a service sissy. She/he serves well!

Mistress Noir teases the foot fetishist...

I have to work hard at staying so pale...

Seeing that I live in a city that has 527 sunny days every year! Lol... (okay maybe 315 sunny days a year)

I love the contrast of black against my white skin!

Enjoy the weekend kinksters!

Cheers,
Noir

She put his foot in her mouth...

We all have heard the saying "I put my foot in my mouth..."

Well... lol - this lil fuck slut of Master Estatic, she decided to put her Master's foot in her mouth the other night when they were over here hanging out watching movies.

It's a bit harder to do than one would think. Giggling...
... foot fetish at its finest!

When someone asks me if I'm the real thing??? Do I live the lifestyle? Lol... I think so...???

Yes pussycat I'm the real thing. I don't pretend only when I'm in a session. I have vanilla friends, kinky friends, and yes, I wake up with morning breath just like the rest of the mere mortals I share this planet with. True story!

Enjoy the day,
Mistress Noir

I love a good hair day

October is a month I look forward too. The weather gets cooler ... the winter folks start returning to valley. It's exciting to see faces I've not seen since spring! So ... let's get kinky!

In honor of this fabulous time a year... and reconnecting with familiar faces I'm offering those who have seen me in the past a October Session Special...

When you call and book a session in the month of October mention this blog post. If you are in my contacts you will get a little something special for being a repeat kinkster. I will let you know what your fabulous surprise will be when you book your session.

I appreciate each and every one of my fabulously fun kinksters so this is my way of saying thank you being my kind of kinky.

Fuck yes it's fabulous fall!
Cheers
Mistress Noir

Why do men want to go see a DOMINATRIX? Mistress Noir has some thoughts on this!

If you are a guy reading this - hopefully it validates what is your reality on this topic and if you are a female reading this, maybe you really want to know WTF?
1. No judgment
2. Safety
3. Specializing in specific niches and skills and/or experiences
4. No ongoing emotional attachment
5. Equipped with all props and supplies
6. Schedule compatibility
7. Partner has expressed no interest in kink or has reacted negative to participating in kink related activities

8. Creative roleplays

9. They feel like they can let their guard down without worrying about upsetting their social circles, family dynamic, or jeopardizing career for the fact most pro's hold discretion as something that is a given with the job

10. Dominatrix services typically do not offer sex in their sessions

11. Trust

12. Its in a controlled environment
13. We have cool toys and have invested in gear that goes with bdsm activities. The stuff isn't cheap!
14. We are networked and known within the kink community

Makes watching tv a bit harder but... lol...

Who needs to watch tv when you have a bound up boy to play with....???

True story!!!

Cheers
Mistress Noir

CFNM Party at Miss Sadie Hawkins

Omg.
What a fun party we had the other night. I have a good friend who hosts Clothed Female Naked  Male parties a couple times a year. This last party was great. 12 males...10 females... and a whole lotta fun.

I was in charge of games... so in true spirit of my love for party games... we played "pound the spud" which was fucking fantastic fun for us girls to watch and here is a pic of them "pushing the fluff"!

These parties are great fun. In fact they are so much fun I'm considering co hosting a foot fetish party with her in the near future! Yup stay tuned... enjoy the weekend!

Cheers...
Mistress Noir

Will it help if I...

STRAP ON A PENIS SO YOU UNDERSTAND THE WORDS COMING OUT OF MY MOUTH boy... ?

Lol.... if it were that easy!

Getting a man to understand what you are trying to communicate sometimes requires a different method of presenting it to him! When all else fails try my method above!

See? A little FemDom style can do a conversation good!

Enjoy the day
Mistress Noir

I said no touching...

Funny contraption... this is a a ball and cock restraining device that also gets attached to your wrists so that there is no chance of you stroking you're excited state of affairs between your legs!

When I say don't touch your cock I mean don't touch your cock and if you have a problem with that I have just the thing that can help you!

...evil giggles
Mistress Noir

CHAMPAGNE ... Godiva and a fantasy...

I have a client who comes to me whenever he finds himself spending a few days at his place in Arizona....

He always brings Godiva and Champagne... he is the sweetest man and I enjoy whenever we get together... his company. He genuinely melts at my slightest of touch.

This visit he sent me a fantasy prior to our session... with permission I have shared it below... lol! The session went something like it?! But true to my method of operation... I took liberties to change up the dynamics as I wished. I'm pretty sure he'll be remembering this visit with me til the next time he see's me. I love men who appreciate my gifts in fantasy facilitation as well as possess the charm  and delightful ability of being a gentleman that truly knows how to treat a lady.

Below is a copy of the fantasy he sent me...

Enjoy!
Mistress Noir
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Dear Mistress Noir.
>
>   I am excited for next Wednesday !!  I have been having trouble
> concentrating at work and I have been on fantasy overload since you
> agreed to a session so thank you very much.I wanted to share with you
> a little of the fantasy ideas I have been thinking about. I mean no
> disrespect or trying to "top from the bottom" I just want to give you
> a roadmap to my fantasy and you can plan the best route there from
> this story.
>
>  ......I get to the coffee shop a block away and call you so you can
> guide me in to a parking spot. I am told to knock and await your word
> to enter. I cannot see you only know you are near in the kitchen. I
> undress put on my cock ring and place the towel on the couch and place
> your tribute on the side table and take out the champagne and open it
> and place it on the coffee table. I sit and face the stairs.I hear you
> move behind me and feel your gloved hands on my shoulders then I see
> and feel your flogged draped over my chest and gently pulled back. You
> lean in and whisper "do you accept my collar while here". I nod yes as
> I take in your wonderful scent. I lift my chin and you attach the
> collar and secure it. You tell me to close my eyes as you place 2
> glasses on the table and sit next to me softly touching me teasing me
> and exciting me. You sit back and place your legs across my legs and I
> feel the boots your allow me to touch them feel them as your again
> tease me with the flogger it is so soft. You now slide close to me and
> attach a leash and allow me to open my eyes and pour us a glass and I
> turn to hand you yours and get to see you at last. Wow beauty grace
> and strength all in one. We chit chat with you teasing me touching me
> touching yourself making me watch you not allowing me to touch unless
> you say I can. You again lean back on the couch and place your boots
> in my lap asking me to kiss them get on my knees and worship then suck
> the heel lick the shaft up your leg but stop at the top all the while
> you are using the flogger softly on my back. You then tell me to lie
> on my back on he floor as you stand over me boots on each side of me
> head. I kiss each on as you make me watch you touch yourself. You
> squat down giving me a closer look and tell me to stick out my tongue
> as you move closer and closer. I get a taste as you move down and you
> lean over me 69 style and tease me with your touch and you lean over
> your hair feels soft against my leg and your lips feel wouderful as
> you tease me more and more. Then you stop before we both get
> overheated.You stand and tell me to stand also and you pull the leash
> to the collar and attach wrist restraints and pull me upstairs. I lie
> down and you attach my writs to the steel bar and now I am helpless.
> You circle the bed teasing me with the flogger and your touch. You
> slide next to me and run your boots on me touching me teasing me more
> and more. You whisper you are horny and need release as you stroke me
> and smile an evil grin. You get off the bed and tell me to close my
> eyes. I hear you moving and looking for something then I feel you move
> back to the bed and start hooking something to me you whisper
> something about this being the third "date" and you know what happens
> on the third date as I open my eyes and see you have attached the
> hollow strap on and you start stroking it...
>  "Champagne Boy"

Real Domme?

https://mistressbnoir.tumblr.com/post/165297538853/what-makes-a-real-dom-different-from-a-fake-one

Some Clients Like to Write Stories for Me!!! I let Them....

I have some clients and subby fans that enjoy writing me stories... 

Let me share them with you my blog readers. 

Enjoy!!!

Selfies from the other day...

Enjoy

How do you know if a Dominatrix is Good?

I RECEIVED THIS NICE EMAIL FROM A CLIENT I HAD AN EXTENDED SESSION WITH EARLIER THIS WEEK!

Since what I do isnt something one can easily share with friends or others who may want utilize a professional who can facilitate our most secret desires, I will post the email I RECEIVED after we had spent the day together bringing fantasies of his to life.

This was a very long all day session, and I must thank my client for the role he played in the success of his session. He is truly one of the few very special clients I have had in a long while.

I have just a handful of kinksters, that when we get together time seems to disappear as we slip into the roles we've chosen and we engage in kinky fetish play that leaves me going WOW .... that was a session that could have won best kinky play date of the year or lifetime, hell yes! (I dare someone to tell me I do not enjoy my work)

When the communication is there, and client has budgeted appropriately, both in time and financial tribute, it makes a huge difference in the session experience. This has to be one of the most fun sessions I've facilitated in a long time.

I hear so many guys bitch and complain about how the didn't get what they wanted when they went to a professional. I'm not saying all my sessions knock it outa the park, but I do invest time and energy into a clients session long before he arrives at my front door. Prepping for a session, creating a scene, pulling together the props, building a sessions activity flow based on the kinks we'll be engaging in really does make a difference.

Something to keep in mind... I've always said the fantasy doesn't start when you're at my front door it started at the moment when you picked up the phone, and called me!

The email has been pasted below. 
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Hello Mistress Noir, 

    You and I could spend some serious time sharing our theories about what is really going on.  I have some incredible ones.  Thanks again, and best wishes to you. 

-Enjoyed a whole day visit with Mistress Noir yesterday.  This is one of the best decisions I have made in a long time.  I scheduled with her about two months in advance, and she was particularly attentive to communicating with me by phone and email about what my fantasies are, and how she could best fulfill them.  I found her to be very open-minded and easy to talk to.  Her responses were always very encouraging, and she inquired for details.

Mistress Noir is something of a scientist in what she does.  I learned that she not only meticulously studied my emails, but also studied further information about the requests I made to determine the best way to optimize the actual experience.  She is very conscientious ahead of time about providing an experience that meets what you asked for.  She has a network of friends who she draws from to know the most accurate information about different fetishes and kinks, and is a thorough researcher.   

I would also encourage her visitors to give Mistress Noir some leeway to share some of the many things that she has learned.  She is extensively equipped with items that would surprise even the most experienced fetishist, and she is most adept at knowing how to share them, and receptive to helping you derive a great experience.  

I travelled some distance to visit with Mistress Noir, and I am glad I did.  And I will again.  I encourage others to do the same to help fulfill their fantasies.  I can't express the value of investing the time to spend a lengthier session with someone so dedicated to what she does.  You will be glad.  

Truly yours.
NAUGHTY BOY (Client)
                                
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Ahhhhhhh, I  think I blushed after reading his email. It's nice to be appreciated for the skills and experience you bring to the table. It really does take a unique dominant female to fulfill the kinky desires of men who want to explore without the complications of a relationship. Thanks to all my peeps who come to me.... to get their kink on!
Cheers, Mistress Noir

FOOT FETISH ... The Mistress Noir

Foot Fetish is a kink I explore! 

I engage in Foot Fetish games with those who wish to worship my feet!

Why would one want their manhood under my foot?

Control? Humiliation? Power Exchange?

Long painted toes to run a tongue on...

Worshipping at my feet because I desire you to do so!

Stockings and pantyhose can play along in fantasy...

DO YOU DESIRE KINKS IN THE FETISHES OF A GODDESS, AND HER FEET?

I offer Foot Fetish sessions by appointment.

I have other ways one can enjoy in my Foot Fetish games.

Soon you will be given opportunity to buy my well worn shoes and flip flops, pantyhose and socks.

I also have created Picture Goody Bags for those who wish to pervy over images of my feet.

and...

I have partnered with a Foot Fetish site that soon will offer membership based content in both video and pictures, all new content that will continue to grow as I do more foot fetish play.

CHEERS,

MISTRESS NOIR

Summertime and Fetish

How about A latex see thru skirt and cream pumps at the office boys? You have a new boss in town and she's got Femdom written all over..... did I see you shutter just a little bit?
Cheers,
Mistress Noir

Pick the Caption...

1. Up my Ass
2. Asskisser
3. Brown Noser
4. Mistress has a pet
5. Kiss my Ass
6. Worship my Ass
7. Eat my Ass
8. Smell my Was
9. I'm going to Queen your face
10. Follow my Ass

Now vote by putting number you like in the comment section... the winner will get an ASS prize.... so vote the caption, contest ends on July 15. I'll post winner  on the 17th. Have a valid email or you can't win. Cheers,
Mistress Noir

Sissy school for sluts that need training

Im embarking on a new project....

Im creating a training course to be available hopefully both online and in person - training sissys how to be proper slutty mistress play things!

Stay tuned.

If you'd like to be in on the creation of this course there may be some opportunities to engage and help. We'll see....

Cheers,
Mistress Noir

Getting what you want... a happy client it would seem!

A client I saw recently sent me a note tonight. Before I share what he said, let me say this... I do this not because it's a fast way to make a buck, as so many think. If you only knew how far off that is as a misconception.... but that's a different blog post, I actually do this for clients such as this one. I help facilitate fantasies that may go unexplored if not for me or someone like me who can make their desires a tangible experience.
I don't judge, but I have been known to facilitate an experience or two for a few that have been life changing. That feels good, and this is what the client had to say >>

Mistress Noir,
Well if you remember, you made me suck your dildo and gag on it. and then i had indicated that I'd like to meet your friend who is a beautiful TS and have you there as well to instruct me. And when you feminized me by dressing me as a slutty woman it brought something out in me. After I left your home and went to the hotel I contacted a TS I saw on backpage. She came to,my room and i sucked my first coc and it was like an out of body experience . I simply loved it. I had planned to spend 1/2 hour with her and she stayed for 2 1/2 hours. I even rimmed her. It was simply amazing and I thank you for changing me to and bringing out this side of me.

I so enjoyed our time together and was so impressed by your intelligence and patience with me. I will definately want to visit you again if you will have me.

Submissively yours,
Client -xxx-

Mistress Noir and end of the year 💣🍾2016 buh... bye!

2016...

This year was an interesting one.  While it brought alot of endings I believe in the circle/cycle of life. So with endings, I hope this allows new beginnings.

I stepped out of my comfort zone on a few people, places, and things. I was pleasantly surprised on some and totally called it with the red flag ones!!! We run from red flag types now.

I found some lost friendships and rekindled the relationships. I found out how much I could live without certain drama.

I made choices about things and ideas that could effect me for years to come. Growth is always a good thing, right?!!

I lost a best friend, and 2 others who were in their own ways very important to me. Holly, Miss Fortunes rest in peace.

I watched my pride n joy grow up a bit more (Cringing empty nest is lurking in the future.) 

I'm giving more time and attn to what I want to satisfy meaning... that which lurks kinky inside me. I found I can thrive on less trouble and didn't have to invite bullshit along for the ride this year.

Was it a good year? Not really but it wasn't a bad year either.  Lets say I hope the year of 2017 is a magical year!!! I am ready for more fun and adventure. Anybody up for such?  Heck yeah!!! Let go!!!

Cheers,
Noir

Domestic duties?

Doesn't look like domestic duties are happening here, right? Lol boys boys boys!

Sadie's Brunch n Beat

Sometimes you have to just eat n beat the boys. #SadieHawkins thank you for the lovely hospitality this past Sunday.
Happy New Year.

Shoe fetish anyone?

https://youtu.be/1Ku386M1gkc