Thursday, November 16, 2023

SO YOU WANT TO BE MY OWNED PROPERTY IN REAL LIFE??

Do you really think you have what it takes to be owned by Dominant Female in a BDSM sort of way? Well my dear newbie you are very very new and Im wondering are you sure you understand what you are asking for? A DOMINANT FEMALE IN YOUR LIFE?! Correct? ... 24 hours has passed - I asked you to go to a specific group and read thru it and let me know 3 things you found interesting... You acknowledged my request, you responded Yes Ma'am. A man's word has value with me. As a Dominant female capable of understanding a man's need for power play and his desire for psychologcal attn, kink and control interests, curious, sincere, and fetishized. I'm very interested in personal opportunities that allow me to meet others who share a true interest in the idea of a in real life FLR D/s relationship. Men are often titilated by the idea, marinate on the possibilities, maybe they have found some fetish porn, read something, watched something giving you point of reference. The very idea can be quite intoxicating... In real life - kink can't begin until trust is established between two humans consenting. Words matter and actions are going to define how much you want what you profess. If you were truly a man that has the natural potential (without ever trying anything in the bdsm lifestyle) to give himself to a strong Dominant female, you would have follow thru on the small request I made of you. My request has a time attached, for the purpose of seeing where you are at on a very basic level. We are all busy. I'm interested in only those that have a valid natural interest. New or not a man's word has weight, if I ask you something and you commit to a action, a response, a follow thru, I seek someone who understands if he gives a yes Ma'am to his Mistress - that's the equivalent of a man's word. Very few understand the reality of 24/7 isn't like the fetish porn you watch. so you want me to own you? Lol.... loooool.... loooooooooool.... you cannot handle the truth. Mistress Noir

Friday, October 27, 2023

A whoo whoo topic... on a full moon feeling -

Happy Halloween and what a fucking full moon feeling kinky fucks ... I feel a pent up electricity bouncing in the fall evening air tonight.

ASTROLOGY ๐Ÿ’ฅ I HAVE READ THIS DUDES COLUMN FOREVER (WELL KNOWN HOROSCOPE COLUMN WRITER)

                      ๐Ÿ‘‰ HIS IG LINK

His thoughts about the Geminis... 

GEMINI: In the version of astrology I find most interesting, reincarnation is a foundational hypothesis. In each lifetime, a soul chooses a particular astrological sign because the qualities of that sign are what the 

You're here to get the hang of what it’s like to be smart and versatile and adaptable and changeable. Your assignment is to keep yourself endlessly entertained and build a strong center of gravity as you weave your life together with a variety of lively activities and ideas and friends.

                ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜ต‍๐Ÿ’ซ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’ฅ

Yeah that sounds about right!





Sunday, October 22, 2023

Medical Fetish Anyone? Bio Gel surgical gloves!

I Love Love Love these kind of gloves. I was poking around in one of my kinky storage containers and look what I found two seven and a half pair of biogel surgical sterile gloves in shade blue fucking love these things oh my God I'm going to just I don't know....  but I do love them! 

HEY YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE - YOU NEED TO CUM BACK! WHY? BECAUSE MY YAYA MISSES YOU!  YEAH ☹️๐Ÿซ ๐Ÿ˜ญ

I found proof that humans haven't harnessed the very basic of human nature ... with out pheromones you cannot be..

Attraction reduced to the very subjective yet required element of pheromones will become the only thing left ... mortals need lust desire validation to stir a soul pheromones is that chasm that drives 2 humans to fuck passionately I like the smell of a man who hold his power with grace grounded... but give him a touch of of needy I will smell it and make it my perfume. Click on the story link below๐Ÿ‘‡

             ๐Ÿซฆ๐ŸซฆPHEROMONES๐Ÿซฆ๐Ÿซฆ



Wednesday, October 11, 2023

What is Big Dick Energy ?

The stigma of being A Dominant Female ...

Men say I want a Dominant Female ...

Men think they want a girl that is confident and able to hold her own in thr bedroom ...

Men fantasize about being with a girl who can tie him up, tease him, fuck his ass ...

But when it comes down to actually meeting a Dominant female, dating a Dominatrix, being in a relationship with Domme.... 

NOT SO MUCH!

Men don't understand the fantasy vs the reality.  

Truthfully.... Men are scared of a woman with BIG DICK ENERGY in the real world. For all you men saying where do I find a real Dominant female? We are out here but you wouldn't know what the fuck to do if you actually met a REAL Dominant female. I know this because I am and I can't get a date if my life depended on it. Yup, kinda pathetic ... sad... but ultimately it's the truth. 


Sunday, October 8, 2023

Mistress Please...

The Decor of thr Dark Side....


Yes its a real place!

DOMINATRIX OR ?? WE ALL DONT RUN ON THE SAME bigDICK ENERGY

Understanding the Spectrum of Female Dominance in BDSM can't be nutshelled In a few sentences. I tried to keep the info specific to the role and title.
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I wanted to dive into the diverse world of female dominance within the BDSM community and shed light on the various roles women can take on. Each role comes with its own unique set of benefits and potential drawbacks, and it's important to explore these differences to better understand and respect the dynamics involved.

1. **Lifestyle Dominant**:
   - *Benefits*: Lifestyle Dominants often engage in BDSM as integral parts of their personal and intimate relationships, fostering trust and creating emotionally fulfilling relationships beyond the traditional vanilla (non kinky) based partnerships we see in society  deemed as normal. They have the opportunity for deeper emotional connections with their submissives. You can engage activities and test limits with a certain level of trust as much as your relationship and time will allow for. Lifestyle kink and play parties are easier to get into if you are a couple. Your relationship will allow for more sexual engagement both vanilla and fetishized based on what you and your partner agree on. Usually you are not paying to play every time you want to engage in fetish activities with your partner.
   - *Negatives*: The emotional investment can be intense, leading to potential emotional strain. Balancing lifestyle with other responsibilities can be challenging. Normal day to day life has to be balanced with kinky activities. If your partner isn't coming from the BDSM community, getting your partner onboard and thru learning/accepting/engaging stages of a kink or fetish play can be a difficult path to achieve successfully. A partner who isn't kink inclined may/may not warm to your fetish whims, and it can cause a breakdown of your relationship over time. Some women aren't cut out for power exchange dynamics. So bitch slapping her partner, tying him up, calling him derogatory names, fucking his ass like you see in a pegging video online, then respecting you in the morning...  while making breakfast for the kids and adding all the normal duties a wife or girlfriend demands may not be a easy thing  to accept and or thrive at. Sorry, it doesn't work like in the fetish videos you see online.

2. **Professional Dominatrix**:
   - *Benefits*: Professional Dominatrices provide a safe, controlled environment for BDSM experiences. They'll usually possess expertise in a broad range of various kinks and can help clients explore their desires without the need of having a romantic primary lifestyle relationship with the Dominatrix.  Professional  Dominatrixes typically work out of commercial dungeons if they are just getting started and eventually will settle into an independent status once they have learned all the tricks of the trade and collected enough fetish props and implements, toys, costumes, and clients to maintain her own private studio or set up in a domestic setting.  All come with their own fetish skills, levels of experience, and usually market to fetishes they specialize in. ProDommes are facilitators, meaning if you wish to explore specific fetish, kinks, roleplay, engage in fantasy scenerios, IRL or Online, for a fee, you can do this with a professional Dominatrix. Usually a good reputable Domme has a VERY visible presence online and is known within the fetish community. You can find them in multiple online fetish communities. provide valuable means to explore with discretion, honoring your limits with consent. They will customize your session to the experience level you are at, without infringing on your primary life
   - *Negatives*: Maintaining professional boundaries is crucial, which can limit the depth of personal connections. Usually professional Dommes will not engage in any traditional sexual activities. She isnt going to suck your cock or allow PIV sex. There may be societal stigmatization and many believe if you have to pay a Domme she isnt a real Domme. FALSE! Commercial and Independent Dominatrixes are not one in the same. Do you research before booking and sending money to a ProDomme. This too has become a concerning area for scamming opportunities due to the fact a ProDomme will typically ask for a deposit when you book a session. This is common with proDommes. But you must really research a Domme to find a creditable one before you book and give over a deposit. I'm a pro Domme and I can assure you there are honest, trustworthy providers who are going to give you amazing sessions, not take your money and disappear.

3. **FinDomme**:
   - *Benefits*: Financial Dominatrixes can gain financial independence and empowerment while fulfilling submissive fantasies. The power dynamic can be thrilling. Online FinDommes are plentiful and a male will not have any problem finding women who identify and promote themselves as FinDommes online primarily and it spills over into the proffessional  Dominatrix world as well as a lifestyle Domme. Presently there are a plethora of females touting being FinDommes in online fetish communities and platforms specifically geared to this fetish.
   - *Negatives*: There's a risk of exploitation, and ethical concerns around financial control should always be considered.This specific kink has gained a fair amount of negative impact due to the ease of online and IRL scaming opportunities. I'm not discrediting the fetish or the validity of anyone being a legit FinDomme, but I do think it should be said before you engage in the activities of financial domination with someone do your own research  before giving someone personal info, bank/computer passwords, send money etc...

4. **FemDom**:
   - *Benefits*: FemDoms celebrate female empowerment and assertiveness. They can experience personal growth in self-confidence and independence. Female Led Relationships I think fall best under this title/role dynamic. There is a wonderful Domme "Ferns" who has an excellent blog and podcast that helps both women and men understand the differences and pitfalls trying to navigate a lifestyle FemDom situation vs the fetish fantasy. I've attached the link https://www.domme-chronicles.com/2019/06/dating-ferns-an-insiders-perspective. FemDom many identify with from watching fetish porn prior to looking for FemDom in the real word setting.  A fetish content FemDom isn't the same as a IRL lifestyle FemDom generally speaking but either can be both. I know... very confusing. Sorry
   - *Negatives*: Some may misunderstand or misrepresent the concept, leading to a broad ranged spectrum of misconceptions about female Dominance largely due to easy access and the amount of FemDom fetish porn content found on the Internet today. Many males have connect the dot experiences happen when they find a video online that resonates with his personal feelings, or mimics a situation similar to one that happened to him IRL, and they take the fetishized porn clips as validation to his own perceptions of a FemDom and run with it when they seek an iRL tangible experience. 

5. **Dominant Switch**:
   - *Benefits*: Switches enjoy versatility, experiencing both sides of the dominant-submissive spectrum. They have a broader understanding of BDSM dynamics. A woman who understands the nuances of submission from a experience based POV can be helpful when her partner has little to none experience themselves.   
   - *Negatives*: It can be challenging to find compatible partners, as not everyone is comfortable with switches. Personal identity within BDSM can be fluid and alot people have trouble identifying with this as acceptable duality in a kink based relationship. Most people within the BDSM community are wired to pick a side Dominant or submissive. In my personal experience this title/role  is a hard one to find compatibility and healthy balance in when navigating the power exchange dynamic between their respective partners. The mental gymnastics required to be successful in this D/s/S relationship is alot to navigate. I personally fall into this catagory and it's a shitshow 90% of the time trying to get all of my wants, and desires, and even some basic needs met when my partner also identifies as a D/s or  s/D. 

6. **Mommy Domme**:
   - *Benefits*: Mommy Dommes offer nurturing, caring domination. This role can fulfill both their and their partner's desires for emotional intimacy and protection. Many times a younger male will seek an older woman in this dynamic like in the classic movie Mrs Robinson. Young men who haven't found IRL success with a female counterpart romantically will turn to this dynamic in hopes of gaining sexual experience they haven't been able to explore thru their adolescent/ puberty years. Also men with fetishes that include age regression, ABDL fetishes, and domestic discipline can gravitate to a Mommy Domme.
   - *Negatives*: Misunderstandings about this role may lead to misconceptions. Maintaining the balance between nurturing and dominance can be complex. The males that seek this dynamic IRL can stuff alot of fetishized activities and unrealistic expectations onto a female who identifies as a Mommy Domme due to the fetish porn content that's found under the catagory "Mommy Domme" on Fetish based video content sites.

The key to a healthy BDSM relationship, regardless of the role, is communication, consent, and mutual respect. Each role has its place in the BDSM tapestry, and it's essential to honor the choices and preferences of all participants. 

Sunday, September 10, 2023

sometimes a slave will do the unexpected... ๐Ÿ”ฉ๐Ÿคฏ

Thank you Pay๐Ÿทpig Boy Bill .. ๐Ÿ’ฅ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฅ

Gold star ๐ŸŒ 

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿš˜

❤️
Mistress Noir - 
...the Dominatrix that owns your ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿช™๐Ÿ”ฉ

๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ


 I know ...  It's a fucking delushious thought... 
You on your knees trying to smell my ass - thank you ... ๐Ÿ”ฉ




Thursday, August 24, 2023

Master Peek a boo you

Ready for peek a boo #2? 


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Do you think I'd lock it up just for you?

Well.... it's a nice fantasy for you! 
๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜‰
 Tease for you number #2

This more fun than to getting all in one post like originally tried to post... 

I got tease #3 here .

I think t have 3 or 4 more to up load here. 

Please make comments on them under a nickname like (DR LYCNS) = Dr Likes Your Cum n Squirt. I can precview your comments first and "if you d:o not want me to show the comments publicly" tell me to keep them private then ๐Ÿซก I'LL ERASE YOUR COMMENTS AFTER READING THEM ๐Ÿšซ if thats your command Master. 

 Otherwise I like to post comments as most of my blog readers seem quite lazy to vocalize nothing... . good bad or constructive๐Ÿคท‍♀️  which is why I don't post more in here. No interaction. It leaves me feeling a little sad a little salty.
Smooches,

Master Peek a boo!

Peek a boo... something is behind panty #1

Wednesday, August 23, 2023

Master ... because you asked me too...

Master.... you know who you are... this is my thank you for your advice today. I hope I see you soon again. ๐Ÿฅฐ

UNFORTUNATELY... this is all I can share that's not behind a pay wall of some sort online. BUT... you know where the real thing is and you can have it anytime you wish ! Smooches

Friday, August 11, 2023

Summer AF!

Too hot for hell....

Mistress Noir - Advice - Ask Me A Question? I bet I know the answer!

Do you have a question that is Kinky? BDSM related? Fetishes.... ask me a question in the comments section of this post... I'll answer it!

Mistress Noir 


๐Ÿ˜›

Saturday, July 15, 2023

Shoe Fetish Explained


Shoe Fetish Explained


What is a shoe fetish?

A shoe fetish, also known as shoe fetishism or retifism, is a sexual attraction or interest focused on shoes. Individuals with a shoe fetish derive sexual pleasure or arousal from shoes. This fetish can manifest in various ways, such as a strong fascination with different types of shoes, an attraction to specific shoe materials or styles, or a desire to engage in activities involving shoes, such as foot worship or shoeplay.

Like other fetishes, the origins and specific manifestations of a shoe fetish can vary from person to person. Some individuals may find the appearance, smell, touch, or sound of shoes sexually stimulating. The fetish may involve collecting shoes, wearing specific types of shoes, or incorporating shoes into sexual activities or fantasies.

It's important to note that having a fetish, including a shoe fetish, is a personal preference or interest and does not necessarily indicate a problem or deviation. However, as with any sexual interest, it is essential to ensure that it is consensual and does not cause harm to oneself or others.

Do YOU have a Shoe Fetish? Leave me a comment if you do! 

Wednesday, July 5, 2023

Why go to a Dominatrix




Embracing Empowerment: The Art of Professional Domination

Introduction:
Welcome to the realm of power exchange, where boundaries blur, desires ignite, and liberation takes center stage. In this blog post, we delve into the intriguing world of professional domination, exploring the transformative experiences that occur within the domain of a skilled and empathetic Dominatrix. Brace yourself as we unlock the secrets behind this powerful art form and discover how it empowers individuals to embrace their true selves.

Defying Stereotypes:
When one thinks of a Dominatrix, images of leather-clad individuals wielding whips may come to mind. However, professional domination is far more nuanced and multifaceted than these clichรฉs suggest. Dominatrices are not merely sadistic characters; they are skilled practitioners who create safe spaces for their clients to explore their desires, push boundaries, and discover new aspects of their identities.

The Power of Consent and Communication:
Central to the practice of professional domination is the emphasis on consent and clear communication. A skilled Dominatrix prioritizes the well-being and boundaries of their clients, ensuring that all activities are consensual and negotiated beforehand. This fosters an environment of trust, where individuals can surrender control and safely explore their deepest fantasies.

Self-Discovery and Personal Growth:
The act of submitting to a Dominatrix can be a profoundly transformative experience. Through relinquishing control, individuals often gain insight into their desires, fears, and vulnerabilities. This self-discovery journey can lead to personal growth, increased self-confidence, and a better understanding of one's authentic self. Professional domination becomes a vehicle for self-exploration and empowerment.

Psychological and Emotional Support:
Beyond the physical aspects, professional domination can provide much-needed psychological and emotional support. Many individuals seek the guidance of a Dominatrix as a means of catharsis, stress relief, or emotional healing. Dominatrices often act as confidantes, offering non-judgmental spaces for clients to share their fears, desires, and innermost thoughts.

Building Trust and Empathy:
The bond between a Dominatrix and their client is built on trust, empathy, and mutual respect. Professional Dominatrices possess the ability to intuitively understand their clients' needs and boundaries, creating a safe container for exploration. The relationship formed within the dominatrix-client dynamic is one of profound connection, where vulnerability is cherished and celebrated.

Challenging Social Taboos:
Professional domination challenges societal taboos and encourages individuals to embrace their sexuality and desires without shame. By accepting and exploring their fantasies, clients can experience a sense of liberation and self-acceptance. The Domination community aims to destigmatize and normalize consensual power exchange, offering a supportive space for sexual expression.

Conclusion:
Professional domination is an art form that goes far beyond its surface-level assumptions. It empowers individuals to explore their desires, delve into the depths of their emotions, and embrace their authentic selves. Through trust, communication, and empathy, the Dominatrix provides a transformative experience that promotes personal growth, healing, and sexual liberation. So, whether you're an experienced practitioner or merely curious, professional domination offers a world of exploration and empowerment. Step into the realm of dominance and submission, and discover the untapped power within yourself.

Monday, April 10, 2023

long time no post ...

DID A CUSTOM VIDEO FOR A FAVORITE CLIENT OF MINE. HE IS REALLY INTO THE COSTUME ASPECT OF BEING A DOMINATRIX. SO...
 MY GIRLFRIEND AND I GOT ALL DRESSED UP FOR MR W. 60 MIN SET HIM BACK 1K... AND HE SAID WE WERE WORTH EVERY PENNY. HE'LL GET ANOTHER 60 MIN NEXT MONTH. SO NOW I GET TO GO FIND PVC AND LATEX THAT WONT CAUSE HEAT STROKE IN AZ BECAUSE HE IS WORTH IT!  ๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’“DONT YOU WISH YOU GOT SPECIAL ACCOMMODATIONS? YOUR EVERY WHIM CATERED TOO? IN THE MOST DOMINANT FASHION OF COURSE. ITS GOOD TO BE A VIP...  KISSES MISTRESS NOIR 


HE WRITES ME THE BEST FICTION FETISH TOO... MAYBE I'LL SHARE IT WITH YOU. 
 ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜ This Subby KNOWS how to spoil his Mistress๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿคฃ

Tuesday, February 28, 2023

CFNM Party with Sadie Hawkins RIP... Pound Your Spud Game

I miss this lady .... loved going to her Parties .... I was the game girl .... sooooo much fun with naked subbys at this party. 
Well fuck I can't post the video. Damn Technology 

Monday, February 13, 2023

Fetish the Brain with Podcasts...

What does a KINKY Domme listen to in her free time? If you've got spotify go check out my playlist on just this very topic...
Enjoy... Happy Monday!















Saturday, February 11, 2023

Asteroid-launcher website = is kinda like World Domination (very cool)

So you know how it goes ... you are in your overflowing inbox full of spam and important emails. Me more spam than important emails, lol. 


I get a blog called the Daily Hustle... and this very simple website was listed in their blog as something way cool to do when you got time to waste. (Do we really ever have time to waste?)

Surprise surprise its actually very fun. I'm sharing it with you my faithful 14. Enjoy!

This has nothing to do with Domination... Other than I can in theory blow up the world over and over and over again a matter of 30 minutes... so I guess it could be considered world domination in a sense. (With asteroids of course)


https://neal.fun/asteroid-launcher/ click this link











Wednesday, January 25, 2023

when a Client says OMG after 20 years ...

I had a client give me the best compliment today. 

He said "Wooooooow - after 20 years of seeking, you gave me exactly what I wanted". He was talking about the kind of session that he wanted. 

I asked why he thought he didn't get it the other times he tried? He was honest. He said they were just too young. Bless his heart. ๐Ÿ’“ (I'm not implying young Dommes cannot be awesome Pro-Dommes, because I know several who are very good)

Thank you for appreciating the experience and knowledge of a mature Domme. It was nice to hear I gave him a bucket list session this week. 



Monday, January 23, 2023

Silly Boys Masturbating until it don't work NO more... Why?

Boys...
Men...
Whatcha doing to your Wilkes? You are stroking to the point they won't rise to the occasion when its not accompanied by porn clips and Rosy Palm? 

Do you need lessons on how to appreciate the feminine seduction in real life? You have gone to the extreme thinking sex is stroking your own silly willy. It only wants clips4sale jerking to unrealistic sexy babies doing stuff that most girls don't wanna do - 
So what's a boy/man to do? 
Call me - maybe you need to tutoring of Mrs. Robinson Lessons in seduction. 
Link to contact info here ๐Ÿ‘‰ click here


































































Sunday, January 1, 2023

A red Ass for New Year

Red hiney for New Years ... such a good slave. 2023 here we cum.