Sadie Hawkins, a friend, a mentor, a fellow professional Dominatrix, was murdered in a senseless fight with her EX slave Fiona last Sunday. In the process of arresting Fiona, she took her own life... now 2 people are gone in a tragic and violent event that has left our bdsm community shocked and outraged. Sadie was an amazing woman who was held with great regard in the lifestyle. I wish her family and friends comfort in this horrific moment. Rest in Peace Miss Sadie. You will be missed.
There is a new law that was passed last week and it's going to run all sorts of trouble for those of us who advertise our services. Originally, this law was "intended" to make it a felony charge for sites that are being missued by human trafficking, thru promotion of their girls in personals, dating sites, communities like backpage, Craigslist, TRE...etc! I typically have resisted the temptation to live in fear of law enforcement... but after my attorney called me and explained what this law had the potential for... I am going to do as he suggests... and focus my energies on some other interests of mine.
So while I will continue to take clients who have seen me before, my process for taking new clients will be tough.
🤤All new clients will be subjected to a new verification process. This means that in order to see me you will be asked to provide proof of identity😲prior to booking with me.
I will be removing certain kinks and fetish activities from those I currently offer to keep me from being targeted for things n stuff that this new law could potentially be considered no-no's! 🚫
If you are someone new to domination, there is no sexual activity provided in a session with me. Do not ask for anything of sexual nature, imply that you are seeking sex of any kind, & you must be able to prove you are over 21 years old in my verification process before I will session with a new client. I understand this is going put off some of you. I get you want for your own reasons discretion and may worry about disclosing your personal info to me. My answer to this is... you can do your research on me, you can pretty easily find ways to verify I am a known and well respected dominatrix within our local kink community for over a decade now. Part of this job is being discreet with all my clients, and being sensitive to their need for being anonymous to preserve their own personal reasons for enlisting time with a professional domme. If you have seen another professional domme and she is willing to vouch for you, that's great. I'll vett you with a positive reference from another provider, if you have no one you can use as a verification reference you will be asked to provide a business card and or proper id, verifying you are who you say you are. If you don't want to do this and I have not seen you in the past, I will not schedule a session with you.
My reputation precedes me and I understand my clients need to feel safe as well as trust me, I in turn need to feel the same about those who come to see me.
I apologize if this new policy hinders someone new from the experience of exploring their kinks and fetishes with me in the future but unfortunately this is non negotiable. I hope you understand this is not being put in effect to extort or out any person who wishes to explore kink with a professional domme, but merely the process of creating a level transparency with clients who have not been vetted with me or another provider. My safety is equally as important as is yours.
Respectfully,
Mistress Noir
I'm collaborating as I type this with an old friend of mine to create a new YouTube channel.... stay tuned! It will be visible soon... as I am creating the content this month.
It's a fun little venture that many may benefit from.... we shall see!
Stay tuned!
Cheers,
Mistress Noir
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Gif created from a medical fetish scene I did with my "craving" a year or so ago... fun times with extreme cbt play.
Cheers
Mistress Noir
