With the very sad news of Hollys sudden passing this past Monday, Nov 28th... many people have been so kind to stop by and say kind words- share personal memories of her and many want to know if they can help in any way.
What would Holly want? << I ask myself this. Holly was a hard one to give too. She didn't want to accept stuff that served no purpose. Holly was giver. She gave in so many facets but what continues as those share their Holly memories with me ... her gift was processing human behavior, collecting mass data and using her photographic memory figure shit out. People, process, things n stuff.
She was the one I went too when I needed no bullshit advice, or rant about the job, the boyfriend, why is the sky blue... she gave great advice.
If someone in her sphere of influence suffered a death, a loss, a perversion, a bad relationship Holly would have practical magic to bestow on whomever in situations of all magnitude.
Holly was funny. She and I spent days at a time holed up in her playspace on Lindsey Rd doing what dommes do while waiting for their clients. We rocked playing dress up in costumes for work, perfected the art of Selfies, blah blah blah...d about fetish work, and she sucked up the business tips and experiences I had to share about being a pro domme and quickly me the teacher became the student.
Holly was brilliant. We developed our own language, laughed at our own jokes, she became like a sister. In this period of time I witnessed her quit a job, go pro and earned herself an infamous reputation in the fetish community.
Her friendship was not fair weathered... she bailed old friends outa jail, help ones when they had a personal hardship, or tragedy. She seemed to know who needed her special magic and what could help in most situations . Holly gave generously of herself.
Holly left behind her son 13 yrs old. He is going to need as much love and generous help as we can give him in the days that come. He is now alone. Some friends have come to help him settle her affairs and then go thru the legal process of adopting him so he can move and live with his new guardians.
If you feel compelled to do something in her memory, please consider donating to Holly's go fund me account that's been setup to help Chris in this transition period.
It's what Holly would have wanted...
https://www.gofundme.com/funeral-for-holly-travel-f…
I feel like I rambled on a bit too long in this post, but Im not going to apologize.
I miss her.
I hate typing the same shit over and so if I post it here then I just have to type this once instead of over and over. Omg no not that, repeating sucks!
I can hear her laughing right now and teasing me ... "Noir, why does it always have to be about you?" She was a tough act to follow, and she could do mental gymnastics while texting, talking, smoking, and chewing gum at the same time. I loved hanging out with my friend.
She was the best entertainment and cohort in crime. We were going to change the world someday. My brain is numb and wants to abort the reality I will never be able to have another slumber party in a space that is decorated in cocks and kinky furnishings, be able to run over and borrow something from the fetish wardrobe closet, gossip about a crazy client, or go treasure hunting for pervertables plucked outa everyday life.
And then I realize it's not about me...
Holly Impacted People!
Touched many deeply in the same way as she did with me.
So again if you want to help... Holly has a go fund me account here's the link.... https://www.gofundme.com/funeral-for-holly-travel-f…
True story... as she and I would say after babbling about something long-winded.
Girlfriend you left the world a grey place when you died. I will miss you Holly.
Noir
