Timewasters... you know who you are 🤯WTF?

I've noticed some trends in those seeking in-person experiences with a Dominatrix of recent. These trends are focused around TI M E ⏰ Given the frequency in which these "trending" things are happening, I feel I should address them or at a minimum share my thoughts and concerns, because educating ignorance sometimes works?! 🤔 Did you catch my hint of snarky? 

 1. On Demand Availability and Booking my Time ▪If you are a potential new or even a returning client, calling me for a session, Im never going to be "AVAILABLE RIGHT NOW". I need at a minimum 1 hour lead time or 2! Believe it or not, I do not sit around in my DOMME attire waiting for the phone to ring, ready to dominate “on demand”. All my clients have uniquely different fetishes and that requires me to customize my preparation process for each client once their session is booked. I also have a LIFE outside of being a DOMINATRIX, and my LIFE also requires my time and attention... so I juggle both. Much like everyone who has a job and a family, I have to time-manage and prioritize my commitments every day in order to be successful. I try to accommodate clients schedules and availability as best as I can but if you know you are only available on a certain day at a certain time, please consider booking in advance with a 50$ deposit and locking your time/day on my schedule. You dont lose your deposit unless you no call no show. Your deposit gets applied to your session tribute. [There are a few different situations that require a deposit at the time you book a session with me but I will address DEPOSITS under it's own bullet point.] Which leads to my next trending concern- 

 2. Time-wasters ▪There is 24 hours in a DAY, and I'm no different than you. I have to fit all the normal stuff called life into my day, while also being available to clients who wish to session with me. I truly attempt to accommodate everyone seeking sessions with me and I respect my clients time by being ready when I say I will be, preparing for your session prior to your arrival, and delivering an exceptional experience in the time slot you have requested. I know for a fact many many providers do not share the same respect for a clients time as I do. I cannot change others but I can set expectations with my clients. 

3. So here is what Im going to do with respect to TIMEWASTERS... ⚠️ For those who schedule my time then NO CALL/NO SHOW 😡 you will be reported to our local and national Verification and Bad Boy Databases. Almost all reputable providers check these databases as part of our dudiligence before seeing someone new. Sometimes just your phone # is all that's needed to see whether or not you are someone who has a history of being a disrespectful fucktard or you are someone worth taking as a client. I know there are men who look to piss providers off on purpose [ITS A FETISH?!] so they go the extra mile to waste our time. I ask why?! Did someone piss in your lucky charms when you were young?! Or maybe a pretty girl blew you off so you want "to get back at females" and you think "Dissing a Dominatrix" is the way to settle the score. The bottom line is we offer a way to explore fetishes. I respect the humans who come to me with respect and I enjoy fascilitating fetish experiences for those who seek me out. But if you initiate my services, book my time then... LAST MINUTE CANCEL *OR* NO CALL/NO SHOW - *you will be reported to our  TIMEWASTERS DATABASE and *I will flag you in my PERSONAL CONTACTS for PREPAY SESSIONS ONLY going forward.

 🕘 *Now if I have push your session time out by 20 minutes or more, you will get 50$ off your session. But in return- 

🕠 *If YOU my client arrive to your appointment more than 15min late, you will need to pay a 50$ late fee or accept a 500 swat bare bottom spanking upon your tardy arrival. I hope by me respecting your time you will in turn respect mine. 

4. Fascilitating someone's fetish and fantasy requests require preparation, communication, things n stuff, time. I have a fully equipped space that can be suitable for 90% of those seeking me for a fetish session. The other 10% I have places that can be rented for the sessions that may not not be suited for the space I currently session in. My toys are quality, many are custom and I have collected alot of BDSM toys that span a plethora of fetishes over 13 years. 

 I'm invested in making fetishes and fantasy tangible experiences. I enjoy exploring kink. What I don't enjoy is having my time held hostage or wasted by those who request sessions then don't show up for their session. It's rude. I'm not soliciting you, you are coming to me asking me to do something for you, so don't treat me like you are doing me some big favor by scheduling my time if you know you are not going to show the fuck up. 

Thank you, 

The Mistress Noir💋