Friday, January 24, 2020

A new year... a decade of kink... what's in store for 2020?!

1st 💋 HAPPY NEW YEAR KINKY PERVS! ALL 12 OF YOU... (2 OF YOU DEAD) INSIDE JOKE FOLKS ... I have had this blog for since 2010 and it's now 2020 and there is 12 followers I think?? I haven't checked before pounding out this post, and of the 12, Sadie and Holly have passed on. I miss you both... girlfriends! Anyways..... Pro Domme since 2006, officially gives me some "street cred" and most of all 10+ years of memories. Being a female who chose this path after having a successful career in Executive Headhunting... CEOs and VPs in Technology... let's be honest, the life of a Dominatrix is not as glamorous as they portray in video. I do not have a never-ending stream of submissives or slaves hanging off my every bark, command, wish, or request. Shocking... I know you pervs truly think we live in latex catsuit, a riding crop is the extension of our pointer finger, we have fat bank accounts, and never lift a finger around our dungeons... (mine a very tiny home). Ahhhh the wonder of the internet. After more than a decade I can say, wow... I'VE COME A LONG WAY BABY. That statement comes with a ton of subjectivity. If I knew now back when I threw my very sexy headhunting career to the dogs waaaaay back when, hmmm I probably would not have jumped ship with blind ambition. Am I sorry I became a Professional Dominatrix? That's a fair question. I have accepted it is part of my life journey to be a fetish fantasy fascilitator and I enjoy giving tangible experiences to those who want such an experience. But there is alot of fucking crap I have to deal with in the pursuit of giving someone THEIR fantasy... Its all the "other" stuff that begins to wear and tear on a fetish provider fairly quick.  (THIS IS SOMETHING THAT IM GOING TO POST AND TALK ABOUT BUT ITS GOING TO HAVE TO BE A FOLLOW UP POST... YOU PERVS HAVE NO IDEA, TRULY😳) Getting back to the topic of post. Over the last decade I have seen a turn in my role as a real time Dominatrix. Technology has created a very interesting playground for those who wish to explore fetish. When I was young, there was little access to fetish content that could easily be gotten. I literally learned all my kink from Penthouse Variations monthly books you could buy behind the counter of 7 Elevens. I think I still have one that dates all the way back to 1984. These little books were the only source of fetish related stuff I could find and when I read the stories I honestly thought none of the stories were real. Im gonna have to do are Part 2 on my New Year New Decade Post.... to be continued 

Wednesday, January 8, 2020

MISTRESS NOIR ... ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A PERSONAL SLAVE/SUBMISSIVE?

THIS POST IS NOT INTENDED FOR THOSE WHO SEEK ME FOR PROFESSIONAL DOMINATION SESSIONS I am currently seeking a SINGLE AVAILABLE LOCAL MAN between age 26 to 69 to be considered for personal submission and potentially collared if everything works out well between the two of us. Its important that I can count on those that serve me personally - that they can bring to the table something other than me always telling them what to do. If you are the type of submissive who thinks of himself as less than, not worthy, and have nothing to offer a mistress besides taking orders and being obedient dont apply. Im not seeking personal sexual companionship from a slave/sub though you may earn the privilege of doing so someday. It's highly likely you'll be in chastity while in service to me. Meaning I control your dick while you are in a service contract with me. If you have interest in me considering you... you need to send me a email to: themistressnoir@gmail.com with a minimum of 4 paragraphs about the following: ● your real name and age ● your experience in the lifestyle ● who have you served and will they provide a good reference of you if I asked them ● your current situation ● why do you think you'd be good for me ● when would you be available on average each week ● what are your talents in life both vanilla and fetish related ● If you are my personal slave you fall under my umbrella of those in my household and everyone contributes - would you be able to contribute to maintaining mistress household needs- yes or no [im not asking for amount at this point just yes or no] ● Do you prefer to live in or live separately from Mistress ● How many miles from ASU's Tempe campus do you work and live ● Are you hetro or bi or homo flexible ● Include a recent (taken in the last 90 days) picture of your face and a full body pic & no dick pics [recent means within the last 90 days] -------------------------------------- I will contact you within 48 hours of receiving your email declaring interest. All emails that do not have the above info answered will not get a response back. If I send back a email saying you are being considered for this role you will need send back the following info: - give me your availability for the next seven day period when you can meet me for part 2 of your assessment face to face. A good phone # to reach you at and best time to call you. This will be a 2 hour interview in person to assess your skills and our compatibility. You will need to showcase your best skill sets whatever they may be so be prepared. This is also the time to show me you have given this role serious consideration. You are free to ask me questions as well. Based on our meeting I will decide whether or not you are a good candidate to move forward with. Becoming a personal submissive is very different from a client relationship. If you are thinking this role is a free way to explore YOUR own kinks, it is not. I consider the process of finding a personal submissive to the likes of finding a husband or wife. It doesnt happen in one meeting, nor is the decision made site unseen. The opportunity to be included in someone's personal life is special and it has to be earned just like any other important person that you add into the mix of your own life. If you feel this is you.... APPLY AS I HAVE INSTRUCTED ABOVE💋
I have too many fantasies to be a housewife. I guess I am a fantasy. ~ Marilyn Monroe