A question asked of me - Mistress Noir ...

A question asked of me on another site... what draws me to dominance? Okay thats a good question... and my answer was - hang on I will paste it here below...

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THE SHORT VERSION IS POWER AND ITS EXCHANGE ... WHAT I AM CAPABLE OF DOING TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING WITH THEIR CONSENT CONTINUES TO FLABBERGAST ME. I AM A GIRL THAT IS KINKY AND I CAN WRAP MY HEAD AROUND SOME PRETTY FUCKED UP SCENARIOS. I CAN RESPECTFULLY TAKE PEOPLE TO A TANGIBLE EXPERIENCE THAT THEY HAVE ONLY HAD A MENTAL TIE TOO UNTIL THEY DECIDE TO JUMP TO THE REALITY OF EXPERIENCING THEIR KINKS AND FETISHES WITH ANOTHER HUMAN BEING WHO PROMISES TO KEEP THEM SAFE IN THE MIST OF FEAR - TRUST - PAIN - DENIAL - HUMILIATION - FORCE - MANIPULATION - AND MANY MORE ASPECTS I HAVENT LISTED TO HAVE A TAKE AWAY A MEMORY OF EXPLORING THEIR DESIRES... MANY NOT THAT WILD AND KINDA TAME IN THE BIG PICTURE BUT I ALSO SEE SOME THAT BY THE GRACE OF WHATEVER THEY FOUND SOMEONE WHO CAN GIVE THEM THE SAFE OUTLET TO DO STUFF THAT WE DONT WANT THEM TRYING ON OTHERS WHO CANT UNDERSTAND AND FACILITATE SUCH ACTS OF EXTREME AND BIZARRE.



MUCH OF WHAT I DO IS COUNSEL.... VALIDATE.... LISTEN.... AND FACILITATE SO ANOTHER CAN FIND PEACE AND CONTENTMENT TO THE DEGREE THAT CAN BE POSSIBLE IN A ALT. STATE WITH THEIR SECRET THOUGHTS AND UNACCEPTABLE DESIRES. I MAKE IT OK. AND SOMEHOW THAT HELPS ALOT OF PEOPLE ALONG THE WAY.



I DO IT BECAUSE I HAVE A GIFT THAT GIVES ME UNDERSTANDING AND I CANT SAY WHAT DRAWS ME TO DOMINANCE I HAVE BEEN ALL MY LIFE - MY PARENTS WILL VALIDATE I WAS BOSSY EVEN BEFORE THE AGE OF 4 ... I CANT TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT - ITS A INTERWOVEN PART OF MY BEING.



HOPEFULLY THAT HELPS ... i HAVE A SAT. TO ENJOY WITH A DAUGHTER I LOVE AND SITTING ON THE COMPUTER ANSWERING QUESTIONS JUST DOESN'T SEEM LIKE THE BEST WAY I CAN BE SPENDING THIS LOVELY DAY ...


RESPECTFULLY,

NOIR