You gotta learn the difference between people who like you for what you do for them & people who like you for who you are, for your own sake.
✔️Noted
Cheers,
Mistress Noir😘
Tuesday, December 22, 2020
Thursday, December 17, 2020
why do men wanna lock their dicks up?
What is attractive about locking your dick up?
Chastity...
Putting a cage on your dick...
Why?
Do you masturbate to much?
Does your dick need a time out?
Is it a fun idea to think about?
Have you put your dick in a cage?
Is the fantasy better than the reality?
Curious enough...
Are you ready for a key holder experience?
Wanna read about a chastity experiment I did with someone? Click 👉 HERE
Contact me for a real chasity experience... Fill out the contact form on the full website version of this blog and I will respond within 24 hours
I do in person sessions Monday - Thursday between 10am and 10pm.
Cheers
Mistress Noir
”Your fetish fairy godmother for all things bdsm, fetish, and kinky”
Wednesday, December 16, 2020
Holiday 2020 Hell of a Year
What a year?! I don't know about all you but I think and hope next year's gonna be better than this one. I'm grateful for the subs who helped me through out the year. ❣️❣️❣️ Thank you.
Friday, November 6, 2020
Monday, November 2, 2020
Friday, October 16, 2020
Hands Down Best Thing I've seen in a Long Time...
The world is getting crazy. What do we do? This podcast is LONG, but so interesting. How does it related to BDSM? Directly and indirectly it's everything. But most importantly it is the best explaining of how our lifes are the curators of our species. If understanding yourself is important to you, watch this. It took me a bit to get thru it but WOW... So worth the time investment.
⭐His Instagram is @hubermanlab
⭐Watch his youtube video with Rich Roll linked below...
Tuesday, September 8, 2020
VICE had a clip on their show...
It's how to treat an ESCORT... But the same advice can be applied to How to Treat a Dominatrix...
Saturday, September 5, 2020
Friday, September 4, 2020
Friday, August 28, 2020
Thursday, August 27, 2020
If I were a sissy boi... I'd be in everything pink!
I have a sweet lil sissy boi that loves to cum to my place and do naughty things n stuff! Sissy boi's last visit was no different... and I had another mistress join in on the fun. Mistress May I.
Monday, July 27, 2020
Friday, July 17, 2020
Fantasies of Americans... a fascinating study
fantasy-island-research-probes-the-science-sexual-desire Click Here to Read Study
I THOUGHT MAYBE YOU ALL WOUKD LIKE TO READ THE ARTICLE I FOUND ONLINE...
HAPPY WEEKEND PERVS!
MISTRESS NOIR
Friday, June 26, 2020
Gratitude goes both ways. ..
I had a client yesterday who came to me feeling broken, frustrated, and didnt know what to do with his current situation. I wont go into the details but I do want share his kind note he sent me a few hours after he left.
Thank you so much for the wonderful experience today. You are very accommodating and welcoming and understanding. The world needs more people like you. I look forward to our next opportunity to meet
It makes me feel good to know that I help people. I genuinely like giving people an outlet to be, do, explore, experience the things n stuff they want to experience in kink and fetish activities that they can not otherwise explore alone.
Cheers and happy tuesday kinky peeps!
Stay healthy, pervy and enjoy today.
The Mistress Noir
Thursday, June 11, 2020
Helping a New Domme find her Confidence
So a new domme asked for some advice on Reddit.... This was my reply -
Girlfriend you got this... you know what makes the man tick, you are discovering what kinks BOTH of you seem to share. Unfortunately, there is no real "cliff notes/cheatsheat" on "How to become a Fabulous Domme in 3 mistakes or less". I can almost guarantee what you are feeling currently is your lack of actual experience in the dominant "role". But you actually exhibit all the makings of a great Domme. Take your bartending skillsets, your submissive experience, and you have what it it's going take to make the most of the opportunity you have with the dude you are exploring your Domina role with. It's ok to be a green Domme, as long as you understand being a newbie isnt an excuse for you to be a bad Domme. I think it's cool when two people can trust the journey and walk the path together learning as they explore. I'm a pro-domme with over 13 years of experience. I shutter when I remember the days in the beginning. I knew NOTHING other than Penthouse Variations. Girl I didnt even believe the stories were about real people, then the Internet came around and that opened up BDSM for EVERYONE. If I can give you some practical application advice in these 10 tips ... 1. A new Domme needs to find peace in her position meaning dont give away your power because you dont know what you dont know. 2. Confidence will carry you every time - but remain humble. Being dominant doesnt = being a bitch. There is a place and time for the bitchy Domme persona, but you can absolutely be sweet and feminine and dominant. 3. I rarely wear my thigh boots but with that said you must own a pair of thigh boots, if you are gonna be a Domme. Why? Because there is not one woman I know who didnt Domme "up" as she laces or zips up a pair of thigh boots. If you own a pair you will understand what I mean. But, rest assured I can dominate anybody in my lady bug house slippers. 🐞True story. 4. If you need confidence in the beginning invest in a well made corset, or latex catsuit, and thigh boots. Even if you know nothing you will look the part which helps create the confidence. 5. Give yourself permission to be human and tell your sub you will make mistakes. It's how you handle your shortcomings and fuck ups that will either build your subs trust in you or break it. 6. Sometimes, ok alot times Dommes will drink their own bullshit koolaid, stay away from the koolaid.... respect, being kind, not thinking you are better than a submissive is important. We are not 7. Reflect on your own submissive experiences, identify who you looked up too as far as Doms go in your submissive adventures. Why did you enjoy the Doms you did and what didnt you like about Doms you have interacted with. (Believe or not I think have the battle of becoming a good Domme is realizing the intellectual or mental aspect of what you do. You cant take someone on journey if you have never been yourself. Metaphorically... for example until someone tied me up, when I tied people up I was going thru the motions. After experiencing it I was able to invest the mental and intangibles of being restrained when I restrained others. 8. Learn the chemical aspects of BDSM. I truly believe most of us are engaging in the kinks and play that we do for the chemistry the acts release. Sub high / Dom high totally a real thing. We all get something from the stuff we are doing regardless of which side you are on. Endorphin loading is something we all do consciously or unconsciously. The more you understand what chemicals the body produces based off the activity you are engaging in the better Domme you will become. 9. Find out if your local kink community has workshops or groups that are for Dominant females, attend them and get involved. You will find a safe place, maybe a mentor that you can learn from and they will give you confidence. 10. Dont kill anyone, getting rid of a dead body... totally harder than t.v. makes it look like. Acid, lye, pigs, saws, and plastic wrap is hard to come by on short notice (this is me being cheeky) Its a good idea to if only to yourself determine your hard limits sooner vs later. Believe me when I say bad shit can happen, and sometimes "oops it was an Accident" will not keep your ass outa prison. I personally have had 2 very seriously fucked things happen in my career, that could have ended badly for all. 9. If you are doing risky shit never never have you submissive sign a "waiver" and you dont sign one either. It will work against you in a court of law. Waivers are different than contracts. Let's say you are going to do a consent non consent scene and there are risks involved. Just because someone signs a piece of paper saying they have been informed of the risks and the dont hold you responsible, that piece of paper will actually seal your fate if something goes amuck. Every state could be different but I have an attorney, live in Az and he advised me when I started never sign waivers they wont protect you standing in front of judge if you hurt someone bad enough you are standing in court for it. 10. Remember this is all interactive. If you are not getting what you want out of a D/s dynamic fix it. It's also important that the submissive get what they want. My biggest tip is communication and and the ability to read and hear a person's verbal and non verbal communication language is super important, because as the Dominant you are "in charge". Assuming gets me in trouble more than it doesnt with submissives. You are a bartender and I have to believe you have hones your bullshit radar. Submissives will suck the life from you if you let them, so dont.
Monday, June 8, 2020
R U A panty boy(i)?
Lol...
More lol...
Mistress Noir likes a sexy panty boy(i)!
Mistress Noir bringing up the tail end here 🤣
Thursday, June 4, 2020
Goal: Fist up his Butt (aka asspussy)
I have a slave who indirectly found me thru my dear friend Miss Fortunes, Holly. I guess they worked together, and when she went full time Dominatrix, he sought her out. Fast forward to present... he comes to me still wearing a chastity cage locked on by his last mistress who had dismisses him several months ago. Hmmmm, after the 1st session, I realize I might have found a rare rainbow unicorn. My thoughts immediately turned into contemplation of how Miss Fortunes managed to scoop up all the rainbow unicorns and they followed her loyally until her death Nov. 2016. Before my "jelly" gets too far, I regroup and realize I must be grateful. I remind myself how blessed I've been for the unicorns that have found their way to me after her passing. This slave has done the same. But something is different with this slave, he wants to be owned. (If any of you could guess how many time I've heard this come out of mens mouths, you'd be shocked at the number!) The curious george in me perks up and pays attn. Owned... he says. Things that make me go hmmmm. Could this unicorn be "the one"? Well, we shall see. To make it easy we'll call slave in consideration >rainbow unicorn =🦄 Less finger work typing if I can use an emoji 🦄!
Anyways this is what 🦄 said this morning after yesterday's progress report session, and releasing his dick from the cage his last mistress released him with it still on.
I received this nice little text referring to his time he was here yesterday.
Good morning Ms N, My body is still surging with your energy. My pussy is sensitive and my leg muscles ache. Last night I played with my pussy, caressing it, and applying lotion. Cock is still flaccid. My pussy wants more cock and bigger. The memory of being vulnerable, ass in the air, and stuffed FULL is amazing.
He seems to enjoy the idea of a loose asshole ultimately... and my fist up his ass. Yesterday, he had made great progress and my hand was knuckles deep. He will see me again this month and it's my goal to get my entire fist in his slave pussy... he also talks about castration! 🤣 be careful what you wish for 🦄! Me being the fetish fairygodmother and all I've been known to make fetish wishes cum true. Oh yes and he brought me a lovely birthday gift ... A beautiful Bulova Diamond Watch. Even though I'm not a fan of wearing a watch, the gesture was pure, thoughtful, and appropriate for this stage in our D/s relationship. Term used loosely... It's a rare opportunity to catch me thinking beyond a session with a client but one never knows when they will find their perfect 🦄. We'll have to all wait and see where this goes.
Thank you girlfriend, even from the other side you still are looking out for me. Some of the best boys who come see me , found their way to me because of you, Holly. I miss you being here in the land of the living. But I feel your spirit, when things like this happen.
Tuesday, June 2, 2020
Sunday, May 10, 2020
Monday, April 6, 2020
Gratitude...
Overnight the world changed. Almost without warning. I'm very much a social creature. Born a Gemini, we thrive on humanity. As a professional dominatrix I built my craft on face to face interaction with those who wish to explore kink in real life. Poooof! Social distancing has kicked the lifeforce of my practices craft to the curb so to speak. Yikes! Life just got scary. I know Im not alone. A recent blog post, I shared how crisis brings out the worst in people, experienced firsthand. I truly believe in the law of karma, I'll keep it at that. What happened from there though took me by surprise. Good people started popping up and the outpouring of good from many unexpected people began to bless me in ways that I couldnt even imagine. My business relies heavily upon discretion so I not going to mention names but you know who you are. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. The gifts of money, the dropshipped huge package of toilet paper, the care package of paper products, soap and gloves, the materials to diy face masks, the gift cards for take out, supporting my new onlyfans endeavor by signing up and spending cash on the site, my girlfriend who came and stayed with me the first round of social distancing, the few regulars who have come thru, putting up with my ocd sterilization process I put everyone thru when they come over, the client who gifted me a vehicle, an old boss who paid the lights, my housekeeper who keeps cleaning but for half his usual wages, my ex husband has even been kinder than any ex spouse is required to be, the boy toy who still understands a girl still has NEEDS and delivers🤪. Clients and personal friends who would normally have sessions during this time have sent deposits for future sessions...
I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING, THE LAST COUPLE WEEKS. ITS BEEN A ROLLERCOASTER OF EMOTIONS, THE UNCERTAINTY OF EACH DAY I WONT LIE, IT'S STRESSFUL BUT I CANNOT SAY IM ALL ALONE, THOUGH IT FEELS LIKE IT AT TIMES. BUT HUMANITY STILL EXISTS AND TO THOSE THAT HAVE SUPPORTED ME IN THIS TIME OF CRISIS, I THANK YOU.
Wednesday, April 1, 2020
OMG... April 30th is a loooooong time to be alone
2nd day of "further social distancing"... this isnt very fun! I'm healthy though. I got a couple rolls of toilet paper and a huge box of "lucky charms"... hmmm smoke weed eat lucky charms find something on netflix, and curl up on the couch! Fuck I hope this isnt how I spend the next 30 days of life. Or worst case the last days of my life?! No, I dont have the virus... but the way the news is going... we all are gonna get it... and it ain't gonna be pretty. I saw a snippet of news yesterday and it showed how people that die from this, they die alone because they are too contagious for loved ones to be with them in the end. That's pretty brutal. Anyone else feel like crawling in a hole... smoking weed... eat lucky charms... and hope the virus passes over them while we stay in the hole watching and waiting for the coast to be clear? Maybe we should pay attn to those who warn us "chicken little the sky is falling"... ugh it's only April 1. Some April Fools Day... not so fun!
There's some good stuff on streaming apps...
Amazon Prime
1. Use Me
2. Remedy
3. Mad Dogs
4. Goliath
5. The Mistress
Netflix
1. Bonding
2. Any standup comedian (lol)
3. Molly's Game
What are you doing to pass the time? Tell me in the comments below.
Friday, March 27, 2020
How Does A Domme Spend Her Days Social Distancing? Ugh!
We are all d
oing our part to help slow down the spread of the Coronavirus. Social Distancing is hard. I have always been a people person. This has been a total disaster both in my personal and professional life. As one can imagine it's hard to have sessions in person. Even thou my medical fetish has afforded me the crazy coincidence in that I wear gloves and face masks during my medical fetish sessions, gloves in most any sessions and my home has seen at the most 5 other humans in the last 3 weeks. So how do we survive in times like this? Well the answer is bleak... we suffer just like everyone else. But even in times like this with no income on the horizon I have found ways I can help. I had a surplus of masks so I donated the surplus I had. I have gone to the grocery store and shopped for a couple of my elderly neighbors. I've done some dog walking for another neighbor. I have had my housekeeper come and sanitize my home stem to stern as he needs the money too. My point? I think being a good human being in times of crisis is so important. Actually being a good human being ALL the time is to be living a life with purpose. Sadly, crisis brings out the worst in others who use others misfortune to gain their own agenda and have experienced some of this as well. I had a client that I have known for years come by for a session last week. We got to talking and he offered me a temp job to help him keep up with his work load as he claimed to be busy as fuck. I would have been able to work from home but what was so important about this opportunity was I would have been able to have some peace of mind that I would have been able to cover my rent plus some other basic neccessary Bill's. He also wasnt able to cover my full tribute that day but had promised to bring the rest on Tuesday when he was to show me the stuff for him job wise. My life, I have lived always believing the best in others. I believe in the karma laws and attempt to live a life that doesnt require me to lie, cheat, or steal from others. I'm not a findom, and I truly enjoy fulfilling peoples fantasies. I'm always stunned when I find myself at the fucked over end by another human. Because my profession has the element of sex attached to it, many think Dommes have sex with clients therefore we are money grubbing whores. I am not. I'm actually more offended when clients think they deserve my services pro bono, or because I like them as a person my services should be free and the worst is a client who steals from me, be it time or shorting me my fee, or making promises they have no intention of keeping. The cool thing about situations such as these are... they can be avoided. How? Simple... Dont be a DICK. But if you cant help yourself from being a dick, please find someone else to screw over, I'm done with shady assholes and no conscious scam artists. I know cursing people is a bad thing, but after doing some white magic research I found my answer to what to do when someone screws you over. I found a spell that works without creating havoc back on you. Such as a curse. Anyone in the future who thinks is fucking me over would be easy and no consequences, think again. Karma is a big deal, so evoking a incantation that teaches a lesson so they do continue to hurt others is a very real possibility. Do the right thing and you got nothing to worry about, but screw me over.... ummm no thank you.
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Mistress Noir
Wednesday, March 25, 2020
Bored? Let's talk kinky thru Niteflirt...
ARE YOU BORED AF? SINCE WE ARE ALL CONFINED WITH SOCIAL DISTANCING STILL IN EFFECT LETS TALK ABOUT ALL THE KINKY THINGS N STUFF WE WANNA DO BUT CANT PRESENTLY, DAMN CORONAVIRUS...NITEFLIRT LINK First minute... on me. If you havent used nitefirt before look on the right of my blog page (you need to be in the web version to see the side bar of my blog) and click on new niteflirt sign up widget, why??? Because I believe new niteflirts signed up thru me will get your 1st THREE MINUTES on me. Let's talk or chat on niteflirt. I'll be logged in for the next couple hours.
Cheers,
Mistress Noir
Friday, March 13, 2020
This should be in my quote section...
"A witch is born... her craft is made!" Quote from Mistress Noir
What say you?
Thursday, February 27, 2020
If I got 5$ for every time I got a dick pic.... ooooieee I'd be a rich bitch!
I HAVE STARTED MY ONLYFANS AND ONE OF THE POSTS IS RATE A DICK... SEND ME A DICK PIC WITH A 5$ TRIBUTE THRU MY ONLY FANS PAGE AND I WILL GIVE IT MY 2 CENTS WITH A RATING. Because yes... there are pretty penises out there, just not as many as there are ugly ones.
If you dont have an onlyfans account use this link (https://onlyfans.com/fetishfairygodmother) to join.
DONT GET ALL SHY NOW... SHOW ME YOUR DICK PICS OVER ON MY ONLYFANS. IF YOU DONT WANT ME TO POST YOUR DICK WITH MY RATING...I DONT HAVE TOO, IF YOU ASK ME NICELY NOT TOO.
IF YOU DONT ALREADY SUSCRIBE TO MY ONLYFANS YOU'LL NEED TOO IF YOU WANT TO SEND YOUR PIC FOR A RATING.
IM LOOKING FORWARD TO SEEING YOUR PEA"COCK"ING YOUR DICK.
CHEERS,
NOIR
Sunday, February 9, 2020
Only Fans .... A decade of Mistress Noir
themistressnoir Check out my only fans account. I'm going to go all the way back to the beginning and post pics and videos from the beginning to present day. I have amassed alot of content so sign up and watch as I post a decade of Mistress Noir! Im starting the monthly fee low but it will go up as the content grows. Enjoy! My goal Hey Pervs... if you want to chirp up and tell me what kind of kinky content you wanna see in OnlyFans tell me in the comments below...😘
Cheers,
themistressnoir
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Thursday, February 6, 2020
Let's talk about something Serious Gentlemen.... please read this post if no other on this blog!
Monday, February 3, 2020
Foot fetish perv... let me give you a reason to drool over my pink painted toes...
Friday, January 24, 2020
A new year... a decade of kink... what's in store for 2020?!
1st 💋 HAPPY NEW YEAR KINKY PERVS! ALL 12 OF YOU... (2 OF YOU DEAD) INSIDE JOKE FOLKS ... I have had this blog for since 2010 and it's now 2020 and there is 12 followers I think?? I haven't checked before pounding out this post, and of the 12, Sadie and Holly have passed on. I miss you both... girlfriends! Anyways..... Pro Domme since 2006, officially gives me some "street cred" and most of all 10+ years of memories. Being a female who chose this path after having a successful career in Executive Headhunting... CEOs and VPs in Technology... let's be honest, the life of a Dominatrix is not as glamorous as they portray in video. I do not have a never-ending stream of submissives or slaves hanging off my every bark, command, wish, or request. Shocking... I know you pervs truly think we live in latex catsuit, a riding crop is the extension of our pointer finger, we have fat bank accounts, and never lift a finger around our dungeons... (mine a very tiny home). Ahhhh the wonder of the internet. After more than a decade I can say, wow... I'VE COME A LONG WAY BABY. That statement comes with a ton of subjectivity. If I knew now back when I threw my very sexy headhunting career to the dogs waaaaay back when, hmmm I probably would not have jumped ship with blind ambition. Am I sorry I became a Professional Dominatrix? That's a fair question. I have accepted it is part of my life journey to be a fetish fantasy fascilitator and I enjoy giving tangible experiences to those who want such an experience. But there is alot of fucking crap I have to deal with in the pursuit of giving someone THEIR fantasy... Its all the "other" stuff that begins to wear and tear on a fetish provider fairly quick. (THIS IS SOMETHING THAT IM GOING TO POST AND TALK ABOUT BUT ITS GOING TO HAVE TO BE A FOLLOW UP POST... YOU PERVS HAVE NO IDEA, TRULY😳) Getting back to the topic of post. Over the last decade I have seen a turn in my role as a real time Dominatrix. Technology has created a very interesting playground for those who wish to explore fetish. When I was young, there was little access to fetish content that could easily be gotten. I literally learned all my kink from Penthouse Variations monthly books you could buy behind the counter of 7 Elevens. I think I still have one that dates all the way back to 1984. These little books were the only source of fetish related stuff I could find and when I read the stories I honestly thought none of the stories were real. Im gonna have to do are Part 2 on my New Year New Decade Post.... to be continued
Wednesday, January 8, 2020
MISTRESS NOIR ... ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A PERSONAL SLAVE/SUBMISSIVE?
THIS POST IS NOT INTENDED FOR THOSE WHO SEEK ME FOR PROFESSIONAL DOMINATION SESSIONS
I am currently seeking a SINGLE AVAILABLE LOCAL MAN between age 26 to 69 to be considered for personal submission and potentially collared if everything works out well between the two of us.
Its important that I can count on those that serve me personally - that they can bring to the table something other than me always telling them what to do. If you are the type of submissive who thinks of himself as less than, not worthy, and have nothing to offer a mistress besides taking orders and being obedient dont apply.
Im not seeking personal sexual companionship from a slave/sub though you may earn the privilege of doing so someday. It's highly likely you'll be in chastity while in service to me. Meaning I control your dick while you are in a service contract with me.
If you have interest in me considering you... you need to send me a email to: themistressnoir@gmail.com with a minimum of 4 paragraphs about the following:
● your real name and age
● your experience in the lifestyle
● who have you served and will they provide a good reference of you if I asked them
● your current situation
● why do you think you'd be good for me
● when would you be available on average each week
● what are your talents in life both vanilla and fetish related
● If you are my personal slave you fall under my umbrella of those in my household and everyone contributes - would you be able to contribute to maintaining mistress household needs- yes or no [im not asking for amount at this point just yes or no]
● Do you prefer to live in or live separately from Mistress
● How many miles from ASU's Tempe campus do you work and live
● Are you hetro or bi or homo flexible
● Include a recent (taken in the last 90 days) picture of your face and a full body pic & no dick pics [recent means within the last 90 days]
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I will contact you within 48 hours of receiving your email declaring interest. All emails that do not have the above info answered will not get a response back. If I send back a email saying you are being considered for this role you will need send back the following info: - give me your availability for the next seven day period when you can meet me for part 2 of your assessment face to face. A good phone # to reach you at and best time to call you.
This will be a 2 hour interview in person to assess your skills and our compatibility. You will need to showcase your best skill sets whatever they may be so be prepared. This is also the time to show me you have given this role serious consideration. You are free to ask me questions as well. Based on our meeting I will decide whether or not you are a good candidate to move forward with.
Becoming a personal submissive is very different from a client relationship. If you are thinking this role is a free way to explore YOUR own kinks, it is not.
I consider the process of finding a personal submissive to the likes of finding a husband or wife. It doesnt happen in one meeting, nor is the decision made site unseen. The opportunity to be included in someone's personal life is special and it has to be earned just like any other important person that you add into the mix of your own life.
If you feel this is you.... APPLY AS I HAVE INSTRUCTED ABOVE💋
I have too many fantasies to be a housewife. I guess I am a fantasy. ~ Marilyn Monroe
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